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I never negotiate on their fee. For me it shows appreciation for their efforts and service to pay them what they ask.

"God Bless" is figurative and meant in a positive manner. I wish all a fulfilling journey through life. Especially those who would brow beat me for it. 

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I got a great massage from him in his flat in Chicago. Would book again.

I enjoyed my time with him when we met in Denver in August of this year. 

I enjoyed my time with him when we met in Denver in August of this year. 

Any intel on this nice man?
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good-looking guy and he can smile!......is being a TV news anchor in his future?  😉

I think the "God Bless" line was their dead giveaway. 

Following-up my other post, PROCESS is often more important than specifics.
1.) Are they prompt in their communication? Prompt doesn't have to mean right away. If someone is in another time zone. take that into consideration.
2.)  Is the communication smooth? Do they volunteer potential deal breakers like not being able to host relatively early in the discussion? Is there a flow to the conversation (no big breaks in time w/o explanation)? There was a guy who had some positive reviews who nonetheless broke off communication mid-sentence with multiple members of the board. Do they answer basic questions directly? Do they ask reasonable questions clearly?
3.) Do the drapes match the carpet?--Experienced guys hate answering questions that are addressed in the ad and don't appreciate an interrogation of what they've made public, but if you pick up inconsistencies, do they have a reasonable explanation?
4.) Be weary of upselling. Also, be weary if someone you've never met proposes bringing in a third. Unless you're asking that's clearly out of their usual wheelhouse (like video), the pricing should be all inclusive and they shouldn't be brining in things you might find questionable. You might like the idea of a 3-way, but those work best if the parameters are discussed and you've met at least one of them already.
5.) If someone isn't a "perfect" fit, what are the deal breakers for you? Be clear with yourself and be willing to say--"sorry, that doesn't work for me" and end the conversation. Some clients are too horny, needy, or whatever and then regret an encounter that probably was doomed. You can't blame the provider, if you knew it probably was doomed. 
6.) Be concerned if you can't nail down a time. There is a subset of guys who simply show up in town and and ask "can do tonight".  Politely let them know you have to have a time and, if they can't do that, then it's time to end the communication.
 

Some rather interesting comments in this thread. Clearly preferences differ, and the purpose of the thread isn't to find one (or even several) 'right answers'. I've been intrigued how different perspectives can be, and it's great that there has been much open and interested comment on what attracts others, and what does not.
There's always been considerable interest in the forum when one provider here sets out his annual business statistics, and also when providers offer their opinions on financial matters. I have no idea whether any of them discuss such matters with clients, either over coffee or on other circumstances, but I would imagine they might exchange views if they shared interests along those lines.

I enjoyed my time with him when we met in Denver in August of this year. 

Before messaging:
 
1- Status/health- does his profile give any indication of safety measures taken for sexual health?
2- Enjoyment- does his profile indicate that he genuinely enjoys sex, intimacy, etc?
3- Intos- did he just select everything?  Red flag.  Did he specifically select kissing? Green flag.
4- Pics- do his pics all look like the same person?  Do they clearly show his body (specifically torso)?  If there aren’t clear face pics, do they at least give a general idea of what the face looks like? Obviously, the pics have to depict someone who I find so attractive that I’d be willing to pay for his company.
5- Stats- are they consistent with the pics?  Consistent with the text of the profile?  Are there more than a couple “ask me”s (I learned this the hard way)?
After messaging:
6- Can he host in a convenient location at a time that works for me?
7- Is his rate within the standard range that I would anticipate paying? 
8- Does he indicate that he’d be amenable to the activities I want to do?  Does he give the sense that he would at least pretend to enjoy my company?

Love pits, balls, ass, damp with fresh sweat.... the smell of a real man is better than any cologne!

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I love the smell of a hot guy’s feet. Give me the right guy, and that smell is an aphrodisiac! Also love the smell of leather. I hate the odor of any kind of cologne, though, and always ask my boys not to wear any.

I love to sniff. The musky scent of male ass is a very powerful aphrodisiac to me. Quite early in my life, I discovered that smelling my fingers after playing with my hole while jacking off turned me on tremendously: I often masturbated smelling my worn briefs, and I had intense orgasms sniffing my teen juices. Nowadays, burying my nose in my partner's ass while deliciously rimming him drives me wild.
 
I also enjoy sniffing and licking sweaty pits. I often ask my boys not to shower, especially after a workout, so I can fill my nostrils with their scent. Intoxicating.
 
You are not alone, @NicoCT, definitely not.

Smells are a very important turn on (or off) for me.

I never said anything about negotiation in my post above although at times I did. It was more in the way of explaining what exactly I'd be paying for such as hotel, plane tickets, restaurants, and outside bedroom activities, and why I could only afford what I could.
 
Respect goes both ways on the relationship. I tried to make sure-considering that the escort was having to spend time with a stranger he might not have normally spent time with-that the experience was as pleasant as possible. 
 
And obviously if the guy couldn't see himself clear for what I could afford, I didn't  hound him but thanked him for his time. 

He’s non responsive and tried on a few platforms in a polite way.  Best to focus on someone who actually tries.  All the above reviews are def a scam.  

It isn't a professional relationship. It's a professional service. If you seek them out I believe you should do it on their terms or they'll tell you no and you don't get to meet them. If you really want to meet some dreamy guy and he asks for 100 bucks to hold a spot for someone he's never met before, i think thats very fair. If you booked a clown for a birthday party, he would require a deposit. Shouldn't they get the same respect as a clown? Everyone is entitled to their opinion. This is mine.

Just as many clients are as well.

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Whats all the "you’re new here" bullshit. 
You mean the longer I sit on a computer in my underwear discussing guys ill never have the nerve or the money to see that will make my word worth more?
Thats ok, you can have that. I hire PREMIUM and while I read about guys whining about a 50 dollar deposit I just send a guy 200 and that will get his attention fast. Money does certainly talk. And bullshit walks. I get the idea some of you are just hobbyists sitting around criticizing providers who you cant afford to see or they'd never give you the time of day anyway.
Im a below average looking 53 year old. But i pay good and im very considerate and that's why I think I always have a great experience.
I say lots of great things about the guys I've seen. The reason is I only hire at the top of the food chain. I always go after the upscale Instagram model looking ones and I haven't been disappointed in 20 years. It pays to play.