Whether you realize it or not, YOU are judging also here, judging the people that act diff than you and that have diff opinions. So, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. I am in no way suggesting you should not offer up your opinions on everything ,
but don't be a hypocrite, and allow others to do the same, without chastising them even if you don't agree... And I am in no way suggesting you "accept" what you don't agree with because it IS, but just live and let live.