I am picky, and have no problem finding and landing attractive men. I wouldnt say they are model/escort calliber, but I have seen many escorts who IMO are less attractive than the FREE meat thats floating around. And as you say, once in awhile you get that real hottie... I dont care what his reasons are for playing with me, but at least I know he ISNT with me because I'm PAYING him.... So bottom line I dont feel I am lowering any standards, and my satisfaction is only greater when I see my bank account in tact. Again, its all about priorities.