Gar, seems like to spend an awful lot of time concentrating on and thinking about Sex. Maybe take a break? You know, EVERY opportuntity that arises will come with "conditions", and perhaps to have some success, you need to "RE-Evaluate YOURS ? I mean, why sabotage every opportunity you get with some "do's and dont's" nonsense you've created in your head. If you really are as horny, and desperate for affection as you say,
bend your own rules (while still remaining SAFE) and let yourself go. ?