Obsidian

Situations like this are why I'd never host from my home.

Sorry that happened to you, and thanks for sharing.

Yes, and while sticking to the original question don't hurl insults towards entire demograpics of people. I know this sounds crazy but, when insulted most do the same in return.

Understood. This started from the comments: "Asians and Blacks are inferior to Whites, and the bottom of the dating pool. The comments came from a member that's been here a decade.

The first thing you're right about.."not debating me". You're clearly not able to debate because your ignorance has you unable to support your points. All you can produce is rhetoric and insults. You proved that each time you try to respond and save face. You've been trying to win this since yesterday, YOU let it go. If you dont want to get destroyed in debates, save your 1950's views for the guys you have to pay money to get off.

Dont be a coward by throwing a rock and hiding your hand. You were destroyed in this debate because you stated Asians and Blacks are inferior and the bottom of the dating pool. You didnt say it during a RP session, you said it in public .Thats an insult and why i "read your book from page 1 to the end". At the end of the day, you have to pay to be with the very ones you claim to be better than. You're a parisite hiding behind the cloke of this anon forum

Ok David Duke, The only one clearly inferior in this conversation is you. You have "race play" confused with being a raging racist. You've also shown how unintelligent you are with your weak arguements to support your points. I've never debated with someone so bad at it. You'd be an awful lawyer. Living in this alternate reality the past decade and it being the most important thing in your life appears to have you delusional. To recap and close. This started when you went way out of bounds by stating "Asian and Blacks are inferior". The is not a "raceplay session" with someone you're paying. Your sick, twisted, bias and and unfounded views make you the scum of the earth in the real world. You're a cowardly and ignorant man coming here to spew all the words you'd never say to someone in-person. You say you're 55 and men idolize you like a God, the funniest of all you've said. In actuality, you true "bottom of the dating pool".The self proclaimed 55 yr Godly Adonis, the one who has to pay the very ones he claims to be superior to.

You should get some sleep, you'll have a long day here tomorrow.

The only fact is, you are what you're insulting others as being. "The bottom of the pool", the last one someone would want. Hence why you have to pay, and most of your free time is spent here in an alternate reality. At the end of the day, you're the one that has to pay, not me. The guys you pay in pretend world wont call you on your BS, in the real world we do.

What else you got "Mr. they idolize me and everyone wants me", yet i have to pay?

You're already busy, busy here disparaging entire demographics of gay men with your unfounded data based solely on your insecurities. You should be proud.

What other gibberish do you have to share, Sir?

You say you hire because you're 50+. Seems like that would be the bottom of the dating pool to me, instead of Asians and Blacks as you claimed earlier.

The point remains, you're speaking from a singular and jaded point of view, not hard data or enough people to argue your point. I see exactly what we have here, "they idolized me like they were touched by God". Did they though 😆. They idolize you so much that you've been paying them 🤔. In the past two decades im surprised one hasn't retired and fallen in-love with this Adonis of a man. The hard and obvious truth is the "inferiority complex" belongs to you. You feed that by degrading the ones you want but couldn't get without a rate. That to me is the definition of inferior, AND the literal bottom of the dating pool.

In the words of the famous NeNe " I said what I said"! End scene

What else..

The Kinsey report would be an example of reliable and confirmed data regarding sexuality. What you're describing is based on views of you and some likeminded people. That's great you've got 30 years of experiance with knowing gay people. I doubt these friends you speak are even 1% of the population.

I would love to see this dating pool data you guys speak so confidently about. I think a more realistic statement would be: " I/we believe that Asians and Blacks are the bottom of the dating pool". Otherwise speaking for an entire demographic from a single perspective is crazy.

My preferance is to start with RM messenger, once it looks likely to be a go we can move to text. I check for new messages every couple hours, so theres never really a long delay. It's a way to avoid someone who just wants to talk, with no real intention on meeting. Also, stalkers do exist. Volunteering info to someone with no official plans isn't necessary and could lead to someone having too much information. You're seeing it from a client perspective, understandably. From the other perspective, most of us post pictures from every angle,write bios and put effort into reviews. While about 80% client profiles are blank, and many have no reviews posted. We still communicate but blank profiles on apps get ignored, while we dont judge that. I think that this is another question posted here that can be answered by putting yourself in the other persons position.

I handle it by saying "I don't think im the one for this one", but thanks. As a non-white provider i deal with enough race issues in real life. I try to keep an open mind with client desires, but when ive tried to discuss a potential meeting it gets increasingly more uncomfortable. Also, both guys that initiated the conversation either were a no-show or stopped responding. My guess with that is theyd gotten what they needed free. For me, I want clients who are attracted to my attributes, not a pretend hatred or humilation. With that said, i think its important to discuss interest and boundaries in depth, at the opening of the conversation. If someones ok with it, i dont think an additional fee is warranted

That's alot of positive reviews, that appear to me to be legit and from various people. Is it that you don't trust reviews, or more seeking a firsthand account?