I live in a area with a large gay population, young and old, so yes, I get hit on by younger guys a lot, but their motivation is often suspect...I thought Julian's response was amusing.."If I'm screwing around with him, I'm going to have to pay for dinner 'again', I don't mind paying for dinner, but at some point, it's like, I can't really build much with someone who can't 'ever' pay for dinner"