Bobby6

So I noticed on the site a topic about nipples and generally how most of us like to have them played with, squeezed, licked, you name it.  I happen to be one of those guys as well😋.
But I didn't see, or maybe I missed it, any mention of making ones nipples bigger.  I for one have done that and let me tell you, it does increase sensativity and I personally like the look.
Like most guys I started with your standard flat, nondescript, run of the mill, male nipples.  So I started a few years ago to increase their size and yes it worked!  And you too can have big nipples if you just sign up for my money back...seriously though.  I checked the all- knowing Google and believe me there's plenty of info on the subject.  So over the years I've used Supple Nips suction devices, Correcto Rings (bands) and those suction cups that you turn to increase suction.  And again, it worked.  My nipples now stick out 3/8 to 1/2 inch all the time and are somewhat tapered where they meet my areolas.  I love the look, I love the sensativity, and I love how my arms brush up against them in daily activities.  I've also recently discovered, that when I remove the bands after a day of them being banded and my nips are about the size of a blueberry, I love to really abuse them by squeezing them really hard and pulling them.  And that my friends translates to my cock taking notice and rising to the occasion.
Another plus, a couple of masseuses I had massages from, have really been into them and gave them a workout.  Most importantly, my BF really likes them as well.
So, talk amongst yourselves now, give it a try and see what you think.
Best to all..Bobby

I don't think it's a matter of "can't".  As a bottom, that's what I prefer.  It's that simple.

FWIW, I found in South America it's kind of expected that all areas are open for play.  And most of the guys are really nice and it was a pleasant experience.

Idiotic shame around a natural healthy process. Some things never change.
I read this when I was younger and always quote it:
"99 out of 100 teenage boys masturbate. The 100th is lying."

"SHAME" is a constant in American culture. Perhaps it's origin is religious ( as stated we can't go there ) but whatever the origin, the results still linger.
I grew up in a religious conservative community..yet all the boys walked around naked in the locker room, no towels in front of them, group shower/ no dividers. In wrestling class we'd weigh ourselves cock-out naked to get an exact weight. Sex itself was discreetly discussed but nudity wasn't considered shameful.
NOW, in NYC which used to be like Sodom and Gamorrah, I watch these young guys go through gymnastics trying to pull their underwear while still wrapped in a towel. SO much MORE discreet than how I grew up !
So yeah...it's no surprise they would also be embarrassed about rubbing one out.