I dabble a bit. Nothing too serious, but I’m really turned on by the type of guy who engages — cocky alpha type, into showing off his feet, usually str8/bi or a masc gay type.
I also have a bit of a reverse power play here. Yes they’re the dom, and I’m paying them… but I enjoy when a “straight” alpha type is performing for me… gay for pay is kind of fun that way, I’m making you flex those muscles and show off your feet.
I get I’m not the traditional findom sub but it works for me. Also enjoy the occasional live cam model for the same reason.