romanhayes

So it’s like you completely ignored the rest of comments in the thread where I heeded the feedback from other commenters and agreed I needed to improve on things. So it’s two things, either you completely lack reading comprehension skills or you’re just one of those people that looks to be offended by every little thing. I think it’s the latter, that’s a sad way to live life, best of luck to you regardless sir. Wish you the best! I have no problem with overweight clients, I’ve said this multiple times. This is my last response in this thread. Not going to give into attacks over one little word. Have a good one.

Well I agree that “fat pig” isn’t a kind term, but it was simply me quoting somebody. One thing that’s strange is the fact that I’m advertising as “straight”. So I’m not actually attracted to any man, doesn’t matter if they are fat, muscular, skinny, young or old. It’s all the same to me. I can perform regardless despite not having an attraction. If somebody sees “straight” and thinks a “straight” provider will be attracted to a male client, then they are delusional. What’s being said in this thread really doesn’t make much sense to me. But I also know what my clients say about me after they meet me in person, I always get told I’m one of the nicer providers they ever met. Doesn’t matter what they look like, I treat everyone the same. If a few harmless comments on a board throw somebody off from wanting to meet me then so be it. Anyways, there seems to be a lot of cognitive dissonance and a deluded sense of reality from a lot of members on this board. I’d rather see clients with a rational and realistic head on their shoulders.

I’m not sure if that would be a good move at this point, because this thread will still be out there with my name tied to it. Without my comments defending myself, potential clients will possibly assume bad things about me. At the very least my comments will appeal and be agreeable to some clientele.

This is wrong. Attractiveness is subjective to some extent. But there are still objective standards of attractiveness. Of course there are certain people that find fat people attractive but that’s a minority of people. People are typically drawn to traits that show healthy genetics and an ability to survive. People are still animals at the end of the day. We are talking in generalities here.

Jesus man, don’t be so sensitive. First, I was quoting somebody. Responding to a comment about being able to top “fat pigs”. Second I wasn’t talking about any particular client I know on a personal level, I was talking in general and of course there are fat clients who are objectively less attractive to the general populous, are you denying reality? Do you think I call out people on their body in person, that’s ridiculous 😂. I try to make people feel good about themselves. This was a general statement.

So yeah I’ve heard that before. People like the power trip or they get turned on by the fact that people are paying them. I can see that, personally that’s not me lol, I don’t mentally get off on being worshipped. My dick gets hard regardless, especially if someone sucks it well, even if I just touch it myself for a bit. Now to stay hard enough to top I usually have to imagine shit in my head or watch some porn during the session, especially if they want me to cum.

Thank you man and I hope I didn’t offend you with some of the statements I said as well. You’re a nice guy but you knew when hiring me that I was 2 weeks into it and very fresh, I feel like I would have preferred if you would have privately texted me and told me your honest opinion, or better yet, had told me it in person during the session. If you would have done that, I still would have taken the advice to heart. It’d be different if I was a provider with many years of experience, but posting online like this about someone 2 weeks into it can hurt their business for no reason. Especially when I was kind and treated you with respect, really not sure if this was necessary. A critique of me was certainly warranted, I didn’t do everything correctly. But since then I have adjusted my business practice and you can see that all of my reviews are positive. I have many repeat clientele and really try to maintain a decorum of professionalism, honesty and respect with my clients. Another thing was the statement about my pics being edited, I feel like that remark was really unwarranted. I have videos up online, I strip at Adonis where you can legit see my physique in person before hiring if you live in NYC. In fact, I’ve been told by many that I look bigger and more muscular in person than in my pics.

I appreciate the advice brother. Look when this thread was first started, I was 2 weeks into it and just getting my feet wet. I think it’s been about 2 months of work for me and I got desensitised very quick. I can top almost anyone, even fat pigs lmao, especially if I’m retaining throughout the week. You can reach out to the few people who have reviewed me on RM and they can confirm, all have been 5 stars. In the beginning, things like kissing, mutual oral were hard, but now I can do it with almost anyone. Like with anything this takes practice. I see a client pretty much every single day. Yes I’m straight, but I can perform. I’m also getting into all kinds of porn as of recent too, so you will see videos up of how I can perform.

My Twitter handle is @realromanhayes Next week I’ll be at Adonis yeah, this upcoming Friday/Saturday if my schedule pans out.

Next week I will start hosting and doing incalls at a place in the UWS. Needed some time to get things together and thank you!

Thanks, yeah I wasn't intentionally trying to "bait and switch". 2 weeks into this, so I will adjust and not do that again. Video chat or pictures will be needed for me to decide what I can and cannot deliver.

Yes you are correct, my mistake, I will do that going forward.

Thanks for the advice, I will forgo the use of a timer then, it is something I didn't do in the past. Still trying to navigate my way through it and provide the best experience, I agree that it can throw off the vibe. So it's all part of the learning experience for me. Also, to comment further. I know clients hire somebody for a service and that as I provider, I should fulfil that service. But this industry is hard, I think both parties take a risk. For example, in a service like giving a tattoo or cooking food, it is easier to maintain quality and consistency. This is a lot harder, there are more variables, human emotions are involved. I am not trying to degrade clients here, but if someone is 3 times your age or extremely overweight or has a skin disease or anything else like that, it is just extremely difficult to perform accordingly. So yes, going forward, I will be transparent and clarify what I can or cannot do and adjust rates accordingly because I do want to deliver what I say. That's the best business practice in my eyes.

Yeah I will definitely. Also, anyone that's questioning the size, even given the pics I have can come see me at Adonis and see very clearly that I am legit very hung when hard. I have no reason to lie about that.

The last thing I'll say is that I am 2 weeks into this. I do not have any reviews because it is far too early, even providers that have been at this for years do not have many reviews. I will say out of all the clients I've seen, about 80% have seemed satisfied and when I did this in the past briefly about one year ago, many of my clients repeatedly hired over the course of a few months. The other 20% of so probably had a lackluster experience. It's hard to satisfy everyone, some factors are simply outside of my control, especially in this business. I'm not willing to inject my dick to perform lol. So as I mentioned above, to try to close that gap and satisfy a higher percentage. I will now communicate very clearly if I will legitimately be able to perform when I see the client in person. If I cannot, I will lower the rate and offer another service where I do not have to perform like that.