Gringotuyoo

Hello everyone, Gringotuyoo here. I'm here to clarify my side of the story as to how things went. I do not want people to assume things about me based on an unfortunate situation. I went back and forth on deciding if I should be coming and explaining the whole story with details, but because I'm stressing about the lies, I'll explain. I had planned to travel to Denver but I hadn't checked the flights or booked the tickets at the time. I nevertheless announced that I'm going to travel to see if there are folks interested and if it's worth visiting Denver. I had shared this already with him and he wanted me to visit him there. We started talking but then he was asking too many questions and the conversation became exhausting and uncomfortable. In my profile I have already shared a lot of information about myself precisely so that later people don't ask me more of the same thing. Many a times people talk to me to warm up and masturbate and waste my time. I began to think that this gentleman was one of those so I asked him for a deposit. He sent me 200 by Venmo as "products and services", which I found suspicious because with that option he has the opportunity to cancel the transaction. So I asked him to cancel it and send the deposit again as "friends and family". He replied saying that he could no longer request a refund for it. So he sent me a request for 194 which I accepted and sent (discounting the 6 dollars of fee) as "products and services". From the beginning he was a very problematic person, then he wanted me to pay for the flights which makes sense because I had planned to travel before he talked to me. Anyways, he also said that he wanted to spend a full day with me and would only pay in the end if I was obedient and did everything he wanted. Then he said he has no cash, no Zelle, not even Venmo and that he only has a credit card and that he could only pay by cash app. It is well known that all scams are done by cash app because they can easily cancel transfers. So after all these red flags I decided to avoid this person. The 194 I sent him are currently in dispute and neither him nor I have it. Anyone who wants to receive proof with screenshots of Venmo transactions and the current dispute can talk to me privately and I will gladly show them. To me, the whole situation was not looking good with him having no intention of paying, scam me and just wanting to take advantage of me and get away with it for free. I would like to think that it was only a misunderstanding but with so many red flags it was difficult. I spent too much time talking to this gentleman for absolutely nothing. Then he began to communicate with other folks and say things like my photos are more than a decade old and other lies that would prohibit others from meeting me. He also threatened me- "you don't know who you're messing with" and other nonsense because I supposedly scam him while he is trying to turn things around in his favor. I am a friendly and polite person with good intentions but this gentleman has tried to paint a completely wrong picture of me. I’m not vindictive and I'm willing to take the high road here. Despite what has happened, I can send him another deposit, in addition to the one in dispute just so that he stops bothering me. PS: this gentleman has agreed somewhere in his post that he wants me to rectify and clear things up but he never told me that he was going to talk about me in this forum, nor did I have knowledge of this forum. I only found it out by chance after several days. So the intentions of this gentleman are evident. His intentions were that I would never find out about this forum, so he and his friends could lie about me. I would appreciate if he can let me know if he wrote something bad about me on other pages here so that I could, at least, provide my side of the story there. I also want to clarify that, although I ask for a deposit for outcalls due to prior bad experiences where I have gone to the site and people never showed up, I also give other options without a deposit such as coming to my place or picking me up.