Fitdljay

Thanks man. I really appreciate your perspective. Gonna think about this some more. A) I could roll the dice and take a significant risk B) I could look for cheap or hourly motel nearby How do I find a cheap place to host? I’m gonna be in Philadelphia. Any pointers?

Thanks. You are right about the hotel requiring a keycard. My plan is to ride down the elevator then up with him. I guess I’ll have to describe what I look like so he will know it’s me lol. I haven’t seen his face either but I bet I would recognize his body 😈

Thank you. Will keep that in mind. This provider is well reviewed. Hoping he is professional about it. But you are right, I need to hold him accountable

Thank you! Absolutely will keep my room number to myself.

Thanks. I appreciate the detailed reply. I like the point about getting a room away from the group. From what I can see online, my hotel requires a keycard to come up the elevator to the guest rooms. I will either have to meet him in the lobby or leave a keycard for him at the front desk (I imagine he might not want to engage with the hotel staff if he doesn’t need to plus I don’t want him to know my government name in case the ask)

Thank you. I really appreciate this.

Thank you. Will do!

Deep in the closet 😔

Really sad to see. I feel bad for him. But he is so respectful. It really needs to be legalized. Sigh.

Thanks for compiling these for me. I’m still learning how to search effectively on this website. Really appreciate it

Will do! Thanks. Also, I agree: Joe Burrows is FINE

Thanks. I’m kinda paranoid about coworkers seeing us coming up the elevator or entering my room. It’s probably fine. But I might look into either leaving a key for him at the front desk OR meeting him in a lobby or nearby coffee shop then walking to my room together.

Thank you. This helps me relax. I will tell him I’m nervous and somewhat inexperienced. It was also helpful reading about other guys first time. Key is to communicate and chill. Hopefully I’ll enjoy the experience. Feel free to message or post another thoughts if they come up. Thanks guys.

I have lurked on websites for a while and finally reached out to a provider and finally bit the bullet. We have agreed to meet up in a couple days when I am on a work trip. It’s going to be my first time with a provider. I am excited and nervous. I have never done anything like this and it is really important that it remains private. The provider I am meeting has lots of positive reviews. I told him what I’m looking for. He seems cool. Is there anything else I need to know or do to set this up for success? Also, I’ll be hosting him at my hotel. I have a few coworkers staying there too. I’m not out! I’m hoping he can discreetly come up to my hotel room, fuck my brains out, then discreetly disappear.