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Some posters are way too solemn. Relax guys, you are not their fathers teaching them financial responsibility. They are young (at least I hope they are...) they have every right to be irresponsible. 😅

As I’ve said many times - I chose to allow this to happen and that’s on me  when they didn’t pay me back, .thats on them.
I’ve helped four   One had troubles, I worked with him and he’s paying    Another defaulted and I should have a default judgment against him soon   The other two (skanks in NOLA) are simply hustlers and they probably don’t know how much I’ve cost them through honest reviews when contacted about them  
I recommend learning from my experience.   Can I afford it? Yes   But I should have chosen to not be a part of enabling bad behaviors  
 
 

These young guys need to make a living. If they ask me for help, and we have an established connection, I am always happy to help.

Did you mean "emerging trend"? No, it happens all the time. Some people say yes, some people say no and still more just ignore it. Response depends on a number of factors. Is the request from a regular that I know well? How much is the ask? Can I turn it into a visit instead? When life hands you lemons...make that lemonade. 

Sometimes I get exhausted from hiring, but then a couple of days later I’m horny again and I get over it.  😁

This is so true! I too am 30+ years older than the guys I hire (but don’t look it) . I marvel at how hot some of the guys are that I’ve been with, and repeatedly, just by being kind, humorous, respectful, clean, interesting and interested! And being a good tipper helps too! So yeah….do not let your age hold you back!

And this is why I absolutely love this forum!!!!!😍