Just Sayin

I think it's situational; I think older men can be incredibly sexy and appealing, so if you found an older provider that you enjoy being with, seize the opportunity

some of these black and white photos are just amazingly beautiful--the subject matter is great, of course, but the contrast, the lines of his legs; this one is really a feast for the eyes, @marylander1940!

he was based in Minneapolis and then Phoenix; here'a prior thread: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/last-minute-cancellation.138711/#post-1549798

I couldn't resist, @whipped guy; I thought what in the world are Japanese clover clamps; here's what I found: https://bestnippleclamps.com/japaneses-clover-clamps/history-of-clover-clamps/ intriguing; thanks for the education! JS

did he escort?

oh wow! I will have to watch; our conversation didn't get to his film career but I remember some comment about it in one of the threads

is that Roberto Gonzalez, subject of the cover story? he is incredibly handsome!

I had a delightful time with him very recently; the massage was exactly what I had in mind and I will repeat when I can. cf: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/massage-recommendations-los-angeles.121995/#post-1275991 https://m4m-forum.org/threads/anthony-in-los-angeles.139141/

is he the guy whose massage strokes are more like "nibbles" with his hands? if so, I had this internal conversation with myself: "I am not comfortable; I want to get out of here; how do I tell him that?" I left after a few minutes of this; I just said "I am not comfortable and I'm leaving." I know I paid him something but it was less than the full amount agreed upon.

looks like a photo from a Body Electric retreat!

always a little pick-me-up when you see a couple of Jasonodin photos; thanks, @marylander1940!

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is he OK?

Our schedules didn't match up when I was in San Diego in February, but I am definitely looking forward to seeing him on my next trip there; I had a fun text exchange with him so eager to see him!

wow! that was wonderful! thank you, [uSER=3916]@xafnndapp[/uSER]!

what do you think, mid-60s?

@Charlie, life rarely goes as one has planned; we cannot control our lives to that extent; I think you should re-read your manuscript and see how it resonates now with you. I have about completed my Swedish death cleaning (cf Margareta Magnusson's "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleansing") except for photographs, which Magnusson recommends to do last. The process brought to mind so many smiles and texts back and forth with friends who are still in my life; it was a good experience; take a look at that manuscript and re-live that time of your life; I think you will find it rewarding. JS

anyone? https://rentmasseur.com/Nick_Maduro

to all of you who post photos of amazing men in The Gallery: thank you for the time and effort you take to provide enjoyment to us; your efforts are greatly appreciated!

@wsc thank you; it helps to begin the day with a little spark of wisdom!

Tucson's Alec Laughlin

oh, thank you; I did not recognize him until I read your post and looked again!

I am always hesitant to respond when an escort asks "what are you in to?" while either texting or on the RM website; I recommend you not discuss specific acts and just say something innocuous like "I love intimacy."

yes, I'm in!

This weekend I uncovered a book I bought 6 months ago: "A Beginner's Guide to the End;" I heard part of an NPR interview of one of the authors, an emergency room physician; has anyone read it?