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I’m not too experienced bottoming but have done so a few times in the last year with a buddy of mine. For the novice bottom I found Pjur Analyse to be excellent. It has a relaxant (not numbing) jojoba that just made anal easier for me and more enjoyable. Honestly I was never a good bottom because I could never get past the pain of the cock going in, I could never relax enough. This lube does the trick for me in easing the initial push and letting me enjoy once it’s in. I’ve honestly bottomed more in the last 6 months thanks to it than I have in the past 20 years.

I think he might be a nurse or works at a hospital

What a great conversation and advice. This really does give me hope for my relationship. I think this could be the secret to a successful relationship especially where there is an age difference or a difference in sex drive.

I see his rentmasseur ad is back up. This time no travel schedule, looks like he’s settled down in LA for the time being. Says he gets Covid tested every 7 days. Might reach out, guy has a nice body.

Same experience for me, and I saw him twice just to make sure the first time wasn’t a fluke. I too have a thing for Thai/Asian masseurs and for the most part find them exceptional. Yes Kyle is very much the exception: disengaged, inattentive and a poor massage too boot. His photos lead you believe he’s playful, even mischievous with that cute smile but you get none of that in the session.

Good thread. The conventional wisdom is when the economy is bad prices go down. First more people get into the business to make ends meet so there is a supply glut. Second, with the economic uncertainties people will pull back on spending. The pandemic has thrown a whole other layer to that with people forgoing massages due to social distancing concerns. I got to believe business has not been good over the last couple of months. I’ve definitely cut back but did sneak out to see one of my regulars last month and he confirmed business has been really bad. He used to see 2-3 clients a day and more on the weekend. Now it might be one a day or several days with none. His price hasn’t changed, I don’t think him lowering his rate would make a difference right now since he already charges a reasonable rate.

Bumping this thread again. This guy is hot, has some good reviews on RM, would love to hear some validation from here though before I take the plunge.

his link in RM hasn’t changed, he’s still Krisswan:

https://rent.men/KrisswanAsian

And no AlexStar is not him, that’s a different person.

Is Krisswan now AlexStar? All the previous links are dead, but he looks very familiar:

 

https://rentmasseur.com/AlexStar

Well he can now be fully open with what he’s been unofficially doing all along. I still recommend anyone seeing him get a massage first and then go for the extras. His massage skills are A+. His name change is interesting though, Brandon if you want a massage, Leonardo for full service? I had to reactivate my RM account back to premium to see his private pics and videos! I guess we will have to discuss him in the Deli from now on.

I just found sniffles a few weeks ago and wow, can’t tell you how much unproductive time I’ve had in the last two weeks. I’ve had more action in that short amount of time than I’ve had in the last two years. I really need to pace myself. Definitely a rabbit hole.

I want to say that Valentin has been around for several years, at least 7-8yrs. He’s come across my radar several times but Orange Co is just too far for me just to get a massage so I’ve passed. That said I’m surprised there are no post about him on this site. If anyone has any info...

This is the Deli... We don't do polictics in the Deli!

sorry, only relevant here due to Sean Harding now involved in an evolving political scandal. For those that what to follow that you can go to this link in the politics forum:

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/patti-lupone-to-lindsey-graham-come-out-of-the-closet.150643/

Bumping this to see if anyone else has had recent experience. He pops up on most platforms including RM and Adam4Adam. To me it seems he would lean more towards escort than massage. He has more reviews now. If anyone has seen please let me know, just need a little more validation from this site before I take the plunge.

I save 250+ tip....which is what he wanted for 90mins

I’ll second and third everything said about this jerk, worst massage experience I’ve ever had. I blocked him on RM so I would see him come up on my searches. Again, don’t know how he stays in business. It’s too bad because his location is super convenient right off the 405 and Wilshire. He’s actually very cute and my type which is why I kept pressing to meet him after all the rude texting, asking me if I was height/weight proportioned and then telling me I’d have to pay extra because I wasn’t. I know, no one to blame but myself on that. Not only was the massage bad but it lasted only 45mins, honestly I couldn’t get out of there fast enough though. Never again.

Mintboys definitely filled the void left by the demise of Craigslist and Backpages. More scammers and hustlers, but also more desperate straight guys who need money. In general the going rates are way cheaper than RM. While surfing it I avoid calling or texting and contact those who published an email. That really narrows down the options. Out of dozens of enquiries over the past year I’ve only ever met one guy off there. The experience was OK but again about what I expect from this website.

Yeah, I remember that inflatable mattress, lol. Oh well. I'll take an inflatable mattress with Jake sliding all over me any day. Yeah, he was super-into it too. I remember we both finished at exactly the same time and he was amazed how in sync we were, lol. Damn his girlfriend! Didn't realize he had a girlfriend actually; thought he was gay. He and another guy used to advertise in-person sex shows in his previous apartment.

 

Super-nice kid. Loved the showers too.

I was surprised too considering how excited he got. He always came with me and that was something I never really saw with other providers. He genuinely seemed to enjoy what he was doing.

Jake! Oh man I had so much fun with him. So far my first and only Nuru experience was with him. Only uncomfortable part was it was on an inflatable mattress. Young guy in his 20s, he got super into it too. I think he got serious with his girl friend which is why he stopped doing erotic massages.

Yeah, he was tons of fun. Also seemed to really get into it himself, which made it more fun. Hope he resurfaces!

So never got to see him but a few things from his new profiles:

-the original A4A profile says account was suspended? Wonder what would cause that?

-He was originally in Palm Springs. His RM says he’s in San Jose and his new A4A says West Hollywood.

-he says in his interview that he was a fat teen, that he weighed over 300lbs when he was 16. If so that’s a dramatic transformation.

-he says he values his sobriety the most. The insinuation being he must have had a bad drugs or alcohol problem.

I still want to see him, maybe when he’s back in Weho. He’s got 11 4 Star reviews, 7 of them in March? Hope they’re true.

11 positive reviews, he’s only been active since July. The reviews show a range of $130-$180 per hour so I imagine some up sell for “ erotic” services? He looks attractive but might want to see others’ experience before taking the plunge.

https://rentmasseur.com/Dr_Pleasure

He sure moves around a lot. I saw him when he lived in LA and that was only last year. Since then he’s been in the SF Bay Area, Dallas and now DC.

with me I scheduled a massage but he advertises for both massage and escort services. I think his preference is escort. The massage I scheduled quickly turned into and escorting session and I was out of there way before my hour was up.

Same situation here. Haven’t seen him since early this year though that hasn’t happened for lack of trying on my part. He doesn’t return calls or answer text or if he does it’s days later. He’s out of town often and it’s clear massaging isn’t his primary focus anymore. I don’t understand why he doesn’t just retire and delete his ad.

Yes I saw him, but he’s actually in LA. He just moved from Ktown to Downtown LA. He has a nice clean place. He’s a super nice guy and I had a great time. Will most definitely see him again.

Waste of valuable time !!!!

Disappointing but that that’s why we have this site. Are you able to give a few more details?

Let’s keep bumping this until someone reports back. Come on, some take the plunge! Anyone know what his rate is?