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I was just about to share this same video. This is so hot

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He has a new review and it notes the pics are accurate but outdated - that’s interesting since he requires a face pic

Slykryk He's in San Diego now.

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I think that’s where https://rentmasseur.com/Marksweetie is

What was the alteration

MarkSweetie new to RM

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New photos

I had a fantastic session with Reyn. I’ve been working out a little more and asked him to focus on certain areas - he used techniques he must have developed that felt incredible (he is certified). The sensual elements feel very healing and therapeutic. It isn’t an experience where the provider is just trying to get you to climax - every part of your body is treated as something sacred.

For me it's a feeling that the provider is trying to convey therapeutic, caring energy and that they want my time to be a time of rejuvenation. Every part of my body is made to feel sacred and the session isn't about getting to a point of climax, but a complete healing experience. The provider I've recommended before is very good at that.

Same day - if the provider has posted hours, I wait until they are "open" unless they've told me to text anytime (because they have notifications silenced anyway). I would like to be able to schedule ahead of time (I love the anticipation) but that never seems to work out. etiquette related - I also won't usually message a provider on rentmasseur unless they are showing available. I don't want them to get an e-mail, log in and then see that I'm just asking a question that isn't urgent.

What's the secret to not cumming in five minutes of receiving this kind of treatment? 🤩

I think this is a great idea and I'm grateful for providers who are willing to coach. I've had conversations with providers about trying different things (and then I changed my mind), but it's really nice to know I have someone who would be there for me.

It doesn’t matter to me. If someone is much heavier than I am and putting their full body weight on me is part of their treatment, I don’t like that - my providers over the years have been all over the continuum of height and that’s never been a factor in whether the massage was good.

I just see a lot of other people labeling themselves and I wonder where I fit on that continuum. I'm not stressed about it - just curious. It's the same with the animals - otter, bear, fox, etc -I don't really fit into anything in the gay community...maybe gaymer but not even that really...other than "boring" what do you call someone like me? 😂

How do you define masc and fem? I don't think I fall into either category but I also think people who strongly identify in either category would probably put me in the opposite category (masc guy would call me fem/fem guy would call me masc). What do you call yourself and what criteria did you use?

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Thank you! Also, I know there are other red flag posts about communication and fees and things like that - I'm thinking about red flags that induce fear. Real fear - not just wondering if you're about to get scammed or have a less than satisfying experience. thanks!

What are some scary red flags you watch for or have experienced when hiring? I'm not thinking about an odd food odor or dated decor - something that made you question your safety there - and if you stayed, why?

I think some tattoos can be so beautiful. Some seem like they have an interesting backstory of who the person used to be and I'd want to know about that journey. Some are creepy. In the case of creepy, I wouldn't go to them for massage. Coffee sure, but I wouldn't be able to place myself in that vulnerable space with them and feel comfortable.

I asked him about the tantric add on and, though he had to warm up to me a bit in chat, he did eventually share that it's unique depending on the person's energy. Lots of breathwork and it can be done nude - I'm assuming he meant he would also be nude but maybe he meant the client could be nude. So I guess I'm still not sure.