Ethan Woods

In my experience Mintboys and Jock2go yielded nothing but scammers. I stick to rentmen, rentmasseur, and a4a.

Not all clients need me to finish, and when I don’t have to do this for every client, I can see more of them. I’m shooting with a musket here, it takes a while to reload.

When I advertised on Mintboys all I got was scammers pretending to be sugar daddies.

Congratulations on your “real job” 🙄 providers are not mind readers, if you can’t be bothered to provide your availability, you can’t resent us for not knowing.

This seems universal everywhere I go. I assume some of these are other providers looking to undercut my rates (extremely common in my home market). I’m not good enough to get a consulting fee, but I definitely understand why you charge one.

Explain this to the provider when you contact them. Ask how much notice they need, and if possible tell them when you’re most likely to have an opportunity.

As a customer, you’re entitled to be a little bit demanding. We live in a society where “the customer is always right”. Plus as a provider I don’t want you to feel like I’m boxing you in. Your appointment should happen at a time that is most convenient *for you*. The provider is getting paid, part of the business means being “on call” to some extent. I think you mentioned earlier you try to provide options or at least a ballpark idea of availability… which helps a lot. As a provider sometimes it feels like I have to tweeze out what the client wants and when they want it, while others are extremely effective at communicating their desires, needs, expectations, availability, etc.

It comes across as flaky most of the time. If you know you want to see me, you also know your schedule and the times that work best for you. Please provide those and allow the provider to choose the one that’s best for them.

You don’t know what I am 😆

I think we’re talking to the same clients 🤣

but you’re the client/customer; shouldn’t we defer to your schedule? why not throw out some options? why assume they’re booked if they’re responding to your messages promptly?

the issue is that I asked an open-ended question on purpose and they deflected. it’s THEIR appointment, that THEY should set according to THEIR preference. Would you call up a restaurant looking for a reservation “anytime” or do you throw out some options since you’re the customer?

The way RM presents safe sex options is misleading. “Anything goes” seems to imply no questions asked or “raw is law”. I always put Ask Me so at least the client might think to provide THEIR sexual health info before asking me to have unprotected sex. Of course, this never happens, but it’s a nice thought. They also reduce photo quality for “better user experience” which means they don’t want high-res photos and videos bogging down their servers. Many clients seem to assume if a photo is blurry it must be older, which is not always true.

If you’re booking an erotic massage why would you assume release by hand is extra? are they really out here charging extra for that? I must boot be charging enough…

I never upsell during the session. I offer all options during the initial quote, unfortunately most clients don’t indicate what they’re looking for or think there’s going to be some kind of menu to choose from. always remember it’s illegal to offer sexual services in exchange for money

I am a masseur and just trying to figure out why clients constantly attempt to defer to my schedule or availability? Example: client inquires about rates, I provide rates, I ask when the client is looking for a session, client says something vague like “I’m flexible”. But I’M supposed to be the flexible one, as the person providing the service am I not meant to be available when needed? Is it not professional for me to adapt my schedule to my clients, and not the other way around? Please help me understand why clients can’t tell me what/when they want service, or assume that being paid to see them is such a hassle or burden.

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