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An escort I met said he's having success finding older clients by playing pickle ball. lol

I think the escort will let you know if you're too stunning for them to accept your money. Otherwise, consider their cuming a bonus.

I fell hard for one escort. He was the first guy I had sex with after coming out in 2024, so there was a lot of emotion attached to our "situation" for me. He is a genuinely lovely man. We were able to work through the awkwardness that I created by being too invested, and we still see each other, our encounters richer and more mature as a result. I've seen about a dozen escorts in the 18 months I've been out. Four of them I've seen more than once. He is the only one I've spent dozens of days with. While I generally agree with someone's earlier statement about escorts being good actors and it being all about money, I also know first hand that sometimes you develop a mutually rewarding connection beyond the dollars. I consider him a friend, and I know he views me as more than a client. If I stopped paying, we certainly wouldn't continue having sex. But I've been to dinner (no fees) with him and his boyfriend. He's included me in aspects of his life, and he's reached out to me for business and education advice unrelated to any appointments. He's asked for help that isn't financial. There's a mentoring element to our relationship. His family is aware of me, and my sons are aware of him. ... Currently, I'm dating a young man who I met on an escort date. I booked him for two hours while visiting the West Coast. He asked if he could stay the night. We connected on a lot of levels, and he asked if we could date. He's visited my house for five-day stays twice now. I pay for the airfare but he refuses other payment; says it's not about the money. He's coming again in a few weeks. He says he's always been attracted to older guys. I think he has fallen for me. I'm not sure I'm in love with him but I do enjoy being with him. Bottom line: It's not always so cut and dried. When sex and human emotions are involved, the result can be complex. There can be many shades of gray between a strictly sex-for-money transaction and falling in love.

I fell hard for one escort. He was the first guy I had sex with after coming out in 2024, so there was a lot of emotion attached to our "situation" for me. He is a genuinely lovely man. We were able to work through the awkwardness that I created by being too invested, and we still see each other, our encounters richer and more mature as a result. I've seen about a dozen escorts in the 18 months I've been out. Four of them I've seen more than once. He is the only one I've spent dozens of days with. While I generally agree with someone's earlier statement about escorts being good actors and it being all about money, I also know first hand that sometimes you develop a mutually rewarding connection beyond the dollars. I consider him a friend, and I know he views me as more than a client. If I stopped paying, we certainly wouldn't continue having sex. But I've been to dinner (no fees) with him and his boyfriend. He's included me in aspects of his life, and he's reached out to me for business and education advice unrelated to any appointments. He's asked for help that isn't financial. There's a mentoring element to our relationship. His family is aware of me, and my sons are aware of him. ... Currently, I'm dating a young man who I met on an escort date. I booked him for two hours while visiting the West Coast. He asked if he could stay the night. We connected on a lot of levels, and he asked if we could date. He's visited my house for five-day stays twice now. I pay for the airfare but he refuses other payment; says it's not about the money. He's coming again in a few weeks. He says he's always been attracted to older guys. I think he has fallen for me. I'm not sure I'm in love with him but I do enjoy being with him. Bottom line: It's not always so cut and dried. When sex and human emotions are involved, the result can be complex. There can be many shades of gray between a strictly sex-for-money transaction and falling in love.

Definitely.

I saw JesTwink about a year ago in NYC and had a nice time with him. I found him sexy, compassionate and interesting. He's educated and articulate, well informed on current events and speaks multiple languages. (I tend to enjoy a little conversation with providers beforehand, probably more so than others.) Of course, none of this negates the other issues raised but I enjoyed my two hours with him.

I wondered, too. Looks suspicious.

Visiting San Diego. Looking for kind, fun providers with good vibes and attitude. Preferably twinks. Any first-hand experiences / recommendations?

Nice. Thanks.

Thank you.

Anyone have any experience with Jack? He has 27 or so reviews but I’m not finding him on COM.

Agreed. It's a minefield out there. ... I'm sure you and @Sboyyy are having a grand time. He's addictive, isn't he? lol

No. He was visiting. He's Chicago-based but traveling right now.

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I've done it both ways. I visit NYC frequently. I have my favorite regular I'm flying to NYC for a multi-day trip together in a few weeks. We travel together regularly, and I enjoy his company. But I also have hired several NYC-based escorts. Most were for hotel time but one was for a full evening: dinner out, the theatre, intimacy. He was an entertainment professional -- fun and insightful. The rates come into play for some of us. My regular charges a lower per-day travel rate than most guys' overnight rates so it's more affordable to fly him there than hire a local for overnights. There are so many options in NYC. You might enjoy the variety.

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You must have seen him on a rare off-day. In my numerous experiences with him, he's always been warm and joyous. He's as human as the rest of us. Sorry your experience wasn't as brilliant as mine.

Correct. I worked not far from his place. It's the Boston-Edison Neighborhood. Back in Henry Ford's day, it was THE neighborhood to be. During the Motown heyday, it had a revival with Berry Gordy and others living there. But it's surrounded by dicey areas and the houses, which are beautiful and can sell for a million or more -- much more if they were elsewhere, are not in as much demand as previously. Many also sell for far less than a million.

Had a nice time with him in 2024. Fun guy. Good natured. Talented.

I see him regularly. He is a prince of a guy. Gorgeous and kind. He's easy to crush on, as well. If you like his look, you will enjoy his company. A real pro.