Ok so he just did a no show on me. I confirmed with him and spent money on 2 nights hotel booking, last night and tonight (ok I got a good deal on booking.com but still). I came in from upstate for this. I was already suspicious when he declined to give me his phone number, he said that he only exchanges numbers after the 1st meeting. Then he kept on asking if we’re confirmed or not and I kept saying yes. I told him I’d pay for his Uber. He never showed up and just ignores my messages now