Can you provide a screenshot of this because it sounds like you were just making stuff up to attack somebody man you’ve literally made 50 posts about one person.
It sounds like somebody killed your cat. You’re literally obsessing over somebody asking you to pay upfront.
Could you imagine if you gave somebody with your attitude a massage for an hour and then they wouldn’t pay you because any reason they decide. that would be awful to experience.
If you look at it as a more positive way, at least you’re donating to a good cause.
Unless money is tight and then you shouldn’t be doing this in the first place.