I messaged a guy a couple days ago in advance asking for their rate and an appointment, got the okay for them so I booked a nearby hotel. I messaged them yesterday and got no reply (I figured they were busy). Messaged them again today still no reply and so now sitting alone in my hotel room 3 hrs passed our appointment. I guess I should just pack up and head home.
I planned for a hotel to be on the safer side in case things looked off or the vibe was off, but I didn't think I'd get screwed for that. Do you guys usually just meet are your place?
I'm aware crap happens or maybe they weren't interested anymore, but damn, a courtesy reply would have been appreciated. This is some Grindr foolishness that I was hoping to avoid.
Does anyone have other advice I should keep in mind moving forward?
Also, what does MT and HE mean? (I'm assuming mutual? and... ending?)