Aedo

I was considering hiring him (he ignored all my inquiries earlier this week, but did respond when I messaged him today), but the way he presents rates suggests to me that there will be no sensuality or eroticism in the massage — it will be a regular massage with a handjob at the end. $300 for that is too much, and honestly not what I am looking for. Also a bad sign that he offers a 30 minute massage — suggests he doesn’t mind whirling through the massage as if he were the galloping troika in the Brothers K. Until I see some feedback from others’ experiences with him, I will avoid.

I just spoke with him. The (strong) impression I get is that he won’t try to be sensual unless he wants to be. I won’t be meeting with him — too risky imo. I had a good time with another provider, so will likely hire him this month instead.

He’s asking for a deposit for a same-day session, so I presume he is a scammer. Kinda surprised.

What does HE mean?

Simply put, I can’t pay a provider $400/hr if he can’t cum. I have had two bad experiences with guys who, upon meeting them, say that they don’t cum or ask for an extra donation to do so. It totally kills the mood and makes me dislike the experience. In a massage setting I don’t care, but in a sex setting I very much do. This provider knew that desire of mine and agreed to meet, asking me to confirm at least three times, which I did. I applaud that he (belatedly) realized he couldn’t live up to the expectation and canceled; what I don’t applaud is agreeing to meet, bumping me away from the first night in town when he knew he would be able to cum, finding a way to be unable to live up to very basic expectations for a $400/hr escort, and then canceling a few hours after what had been a clear confirmation on my part that we would meet. I only became worried about his ability to cum once I detected he had bumped me off of Thursday to meet a different client, if not several different clients. I disagree with his characterization that I incessantly bothered him about it, though I did make it clear I was worried about it. Lastly, I was somewhat relieved we didn’t meet because, I suspect, he likely didn’t have any juice left in the tank for our meet. I shared my experience to let others know he is willing to shift and annul engagements, and was willing to use my flexibility on time to make me his last priority — to fit me into his schedule at a time most would be at work and when he could likely forecast he wouldn’t be able to live up to clear expectations set. It is obvious to me that he cancelled likely not because of being pressured but because he had cum so much he knew he wouldn’t be able to recharge by 1pm the next day. I suspect he felt guilt, which I applaud. That’s the likely reason to request my confirmation at 7pm, receive said confirmation within 15 minutes, and then cancel at midnight with minimal communication in between. Philleas can wander around with his divining rod all he wants to. I’ve provided my review and don’t need to say anything else on the matter.

Was hoping someone had met him by now. He’s in Houston atm

On Wednesday we agreed to meet Thursday night; he quickly changed the time to Friday afternoon, which I agreed to (this wasn’t problematic at all because I had indicated that Thursday or Friday were fine, so it didn’t bother me that he moved it. I wasn’t sure why he was moving it, though in his cancellation message he said he had just cum with a client, so I now presume he moved our session so he could meet this other client). He messaged me Thursday afternoon to confirm Friday at 1pm. I confirmed it. He then messaged me Thursday evening, requesting that I confirm again by 11:30am the day of our meet; I said I would do so. He then messaged me a bit before midnight that same evening to cancel. Your use of the phrase “turn down a job” is curious. He agreed to our meet and asked me for multiple confirmations, which I provided.

Sad to report that this guy just isn’t up to task of being an escort, or perhaps has taken his professional cues from Kawhai Leonard. He demands a high rate ($400/hr) and canceled on me just now, the night before our 1pm appointment tomorrow, because he felt I had put too much pressure on him by expecting him to cum during our session (in no particular manner, merely that he cum). I rejoindered with the option of doing $300 + a $120 tip if he cums, but he never responded. Little bro doesn’t seem to understand that when you request Patrick Mahomes money, you’re held to a higher standard than Sam Darnold. Probably also worth mentioning that he had bumped our session from tonight to tomorrow (so he could meet a different client tonight), before ultimately canceling outright. You take a great risk when you block out time in your schedule for this kid. He fundamentally doesn’t respect the money he asks of you.

I enjoyed my experience with him, but don’t plan to meet him again. He has the stereotypical American-flamboyant energy despite being muscular, which may appeal to some. I found him to be very nice. He definitely has “gay Miami Vice” vibes, which describes his energy well (though, it should be added, aren’t so strong that they give off overt escort energy, which I appreciate). The word “earnest” also comes to mind for whatever reason. The massage was quite good. Would give it a 7/10. His sensuality during the massage is quite forced, but after the massage feels very real.

He’s a nice guy. I’ve seen him twice (14 months ago and twelve months ago). The massage is a 6.5/10. He tries to do a good job, and overall I’d say it is pretty good. Definitely an amateur and not a pro, but he doesn’t charge an insane amount either, so I’d say it’s reasonable. Very much a side hustle. I wish he had a table, but the massage takes place on his bed. He’s not very sensual, at least with me. So the extras were very clinical. How to describe his energy….”white gay guy who does bartending but, if he did drugs at all, quit very quickly; plus a nice, regular twinky guy”. I’d probably recommend him. Maybe I’ll visit him at some point this year, not sure.

I too would like some intel on santdaniel

They want your cock, Ben. That’s what they want.

It’s weird how cities that are only 3x the size have 50x the escorts. I’m in Louisville now and see what you mean. There is so much lying in this industry I think I’m done for quite a while. When I hire again I will request a shirtless instant selfie, as two of the past three providers have been in far worse shape than their pics (one blamed it on being unable to afford to get a gym membership in the US, and the other on having been traveling in the US for a month), and I will never assume that these guys know how to give a massage unless it’s verified here on this forum. I probably need to be more open to hiring the same provider instead of searching for another. I almost suspect that the fewer providers there are in an area, the more honest one has to be, which cuts down on the number of crappy/scammy providers. Just an unverified hypothesis.

Ok, but, guys aren’t on IG to find dates. They’re on IG for street cred, like a visual, vain facebook. People on Grindr and Tinder are there (theoretically) to meet others who share their sexuality. I think I’ve said hi to three guys on IG; I vaguely recall one of them wanting to talk more. But I still wouldn’t want to “use” IG as a dating app.

How do you use IG and TikTok to approach gay guys?

Eh, count me unimpressed. He’s staying in my neighborhood, and I offered to drive him to my apartment and back to his hotel. He said that that was fine, but he’d be charging me for that time. So basically he wanted to charge me an additional 20 minutes of meeting time, or reduce our proposed session from 60 minutes to 40 minutes. That was completely out of line. And I’ve also never had a good experience with a provider who was eyeing the clock to the minute.

I was mulling him over today, but will avoid. Super disappointing…Slavic men are usually among the most romantic.

Lol, crazy.

Seems that way, yea. Looks like three positive experiences and two negative ones.

He gives a stellar massage, but the extras are an afterthought. He and the massage felt very professional, with no sensual energy. He is a kind, stunningly handsome guy.