OneTaoBoy

Yes, I love how he seemed to think sex is kinda dirty.

RE: accurate cock size. I guess, tho I love a big ropy hanging thang, I am not that much of a cock connoisseur. I believe he can pound with I think at least that much length. Not hugely round. Put he pounds with pride, vigor, and, as you might say, with 'so damn sexy' man energy.......HE WILL BE YOUR SEXY. He was my first and only every overseas hire. Boy, was I lucky, man-wise.

Hi. Completely agree it's on a par with THE GREAT, sharing the darkness, snark, self-assertion/creation of our days. It's well worth watching. Though, not unlike the other show, it sorta peters out....so to speak.

You might want to have some time to be with him before getting there. He is a total bugarron-style 'top only' guy, with round, fuzzy-hairy, strong, beautifully shaped butt cheeks I found myself gently and idly stroking at times.....though I could feel him bristle ever so slightly. But he is game, full of driving energy, and if he knew just what you were going to do....you would have your dreams come true. So manly this guy. Through him I found out that I am no sub, but love the strength and loved to push back at him. Boy he can kiss hard, I think there's a Portuguese word about putting your whole body into a kiss: beijo. Another word is similar but I can't think of it. He's scrupulously clean, perhaps a tad beyond so, and extremely careful of what he eats and how it's prepared. He appears to be at the top of his game.

Hey I’m a few months COM member, fairly new to hiring, and I have learned helpful and clear ways to look at the provider-client relationship, communication, expectations, etc. It’s a whole world that, piecing together a variety of contributions on the site, one can learn how to navigate pretty successfully. I plan to hire a particular muscular provider in his 20's who seems like a mellow companion for what I’m interested in [some muscle admiration plus the usual tangling]. This seems like a pretty mild request to me, but I’d like peoples’ input. I would like to have a session a few hours after he works out and has some visible pump. Do I just ask him in advance to have a pump when we meet? Thanks for considering this.

OK, this doesn't count as recent, I guess. I saw him in November in St. Louis. He is sweet, handsome face with great structure, intoxicating and wild e Body close enough to pix by my reckoning. He is Venezuelan, had completed nursing school and was waiting to pass the exam to practice nursing. He was not really engaged. I am chubby and older, which of course may have been an ick factor for him. We chatted easily, he barely touched my lips, didn't touch my dick, thought I was too tight for anal [in an about 1.35 second assessment]. Maybe if he's having a good day and finds a client attractive, he cuts loose with passion. I saw cool and muted.

I hired him for most of a day. I'm attaching his rate sheet.

Here's an official review of Ford_Ford: "I spent most of a day with Ford_Ford. He was extremely accommodating as we made arrangements, and so good at staying connected. This guy is a man’s man dream, if you add a whole lot of social intelligence and very friendly passion. We played hard and gently. Once you see him move toward you, fast and Big Cat-like across the bed, with hairy sculpted muscles and handsome face, you'll know you're in the best hands. This guy is a total top, he drives the fun with hot passion. Weeks later I realize that while we were wrestling and hard-kissing, Ford carefully matched my strength [I’m about 45 years older} and let me know how powerful he is in the kindest possible way. If you are a bit older, shy, hungry for freely given manliness, and you like muscle in action, treat yourself to Ford. " All true AND, I am a novice, bi, and not particularly submissive, not a bottom and not a sub. But wanting to explore passion, etc. The two of us would have been better in successive sessions, given the communication issues. He is a charming and lsmooth and very driven, willful guy.

Thanks for the advice about speaking up. I did, but because the guy was so much younger and [I could feel eager to please in his own way as a top driver] determined, I said something about waiting until after he got what he wanted we could do things differently. But he kind of has the one driving approach. So, language barrier, age and cultural difference, my inexperience, whatever. I agree about the importance of speaking up, trust me on that.

I appreciate seeing how you would have handled this. Not only am I old for novice in renting, but also feeling newly and freely expressive with men. Long history of very rough treatment by a female caretaker and loads of inner work. I'd never flirted with any guy--and the fact that he is killer handsome and very powerfully built made it more fun for me. I was happy we were texting. I did explicitly say what I wanted, and his response about love language was after that. There was a language barrier. We both thought we spoke a shared European language other than our languages of origin. I think one did better than the other. 🤔 My take now is that this guy is a swell guy with a lot invested emotionally and physically in being a top, with some gay porn-inflected moves that are considered pleasing for bottoms. I am most certainly bi, and not a gay bottom. Those moves are too much like being used for someone else's pleasure. I didn't hate obliging the guy, but I had clearly indicated via text the touch and moves I wanted. And the money I spent was for a fantasized pleasure for me. I regret that it didn't work out that, while on the trip during which we met, I didn't have several shorter sessions with him instead of a long one. I think we would have worked things out.

I don't think I would ever use "the language of love", as if a desired physical touch is universally understood. He used the term. I think when he used the words they meant: "I'm a stud and I'll take care of all that for you." As rank novice in this game, I hoped all that was true.

I hired a guy through RM who, because we missed a first meeting through travel complications, I ended up chatting with several days about eventually meeting. During this time, he flirted in a sweet enough way, and asked me details about what I would really like. Pretty new to me. His response was great, and included a snap of his hard dick through sweatpants after reading what I wrote. All good. We met for most of a day. His body was amazing and he had lots of top-in-his-young-prime energy. What he really wanted [needed?] to do was cram his good-sized dick down to my softpalate, and plow butt hard til he was finished. After having told him eariler, explicitly, the kind of touch I wanted, he ended up demanding [not in a scary way, for me: I am a good-sized older man] to know "why you no touch yourself?" "how come you no come?" As if we hadn't exchanged intimate preferences. He had said earlier something about how the 'language of love' takes care of things. If guess, if you speak it.... How do you know if someone who sounds like they're speaking the language of love actually can feel and perform it in his body? Are there little signs of openness one can look for? I know--a leading and stupid question in a marketplace experience business. I'm much the novice [not the first time hiring, though] and though I did get fucked, it wasn't enough. Certainly not for the money spent. Friendly advice for a future hire?

This is true and well said. Empathy, in my experience, is not 'seeing inside' someone, it's not 'knowing something somehow'. It IS using your whole sensing self, it is offering to the other your sense of them and checking to see if it fits their sense. Lots of human ways to do that. It is always being open and willing to be corrected in the living presence of another, to be wrong, to learn about a separate conscious person. Empathy is not for the faint hearted, but it's what we have.

If you can schedule with Ford_Ford through Rentmen, and you like top energy, strong thick sculpted body with hair in the right places, very nice fella---do it.