One other thing someone else mentioned, the sense I have is that he has to be into you for something to happen. We never talked about his receptivity, after the massage started, I just initiated it and it happened totally, totally naturally. He didn’t mention extra fees after the session was over either. I left him a good tip and he seemed happy. I tried to make another appointment and mentioned more than a massage and he didn't answer. Wrote to him again later and just mentioned massage and we booked a massage and had another great time.