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You’re not alone. One of my regulars told me he doesn’t even respond to “Sup” or “Hey” or “Wyd”. He said no booking has ever come from a conversation that starts like this and he either ignores or blocks

Ding, ding, ding! The difference between #1 and #2 matters. Which one sounds more like a respectful and serious client? And which one sounds more like a tacky bargain shopper who’s likely to flake? Now imagine taking it a step further and doing what I do, which is #3. ”Hi (escort’s name)! I’m (my name), I throughly enjoyed your profile and I’m very interested in meeting. I’m looking for (what I’m into). I would like to meet July (date) at (time) at (place) if possible. Looking forward to hearing from you!” Now. Which of these 3 options do you think a LUXURY escort will take most seriously?

This is exactly what I was talking about. If the first contact is only a rate inquiry with no introduction or any amplifying information as to what you want. Also… “rude can be a synonym for tacky, both words can describe something as embarrassing or distasteful. For example, tacky clothes can be inexpensive but flashy and showy, and tacky comments can be tasteless, rude, and trashy” So thanks for proving my point

Just curious. Out of the no-shows, how many of them started the conversation with just “What’s your rate?”, “Rate?”, or some variation of a rate inquiry?

The high-end escorts who block do. Which is what this thread is about…

Exactly. That’s what I’ve been saying from the beginning. The rest of your comment is irrelevant. Couldn’t care less about what you think about me.

It is tacky when “Rate?” is the first thing you ask without even an introduction or a brief discussion of what you want. The LUXURY escorts I hire said it was tacky. Their words not mine. It’s clear the quality I hire is different from the quality you hire. But to each his own.

Terrible example. Tomatoes aren’t luxury commodities where the saying “If you have to ask you can’t afford it” applies. And for clients like myself, it’s not just commerce when you’re dealing with HUMAN BEINGS. And from what the original poster said, he didn’t include a basic greeting or any sort of introduction like you mentioned, which further proves my point. And of course you shouldn’t get too chatty, but a wealthy client will briefly discuss other compatibility things FIRST because they already know budget is not an issue. I’m telling you what the LUXURY escorts that I hire have told me. There’s no way you have hired the top-quality escorts that I have hired if you opened the conversation with “What’s your rate?”

…yet this is the photo he uploaded yesterday 😬

I know how annoying these topics can get when we start talking about multiple providers so let’s try to keep this space for blessedboy. But you or anyone else who’s interested is welcomed to dm me.

This! Sure I could waste time in bars or on Grindr but I have shit to do. I hire out of convenience, not out of necessity.

I have other providers who I prefer and are the total package but thanks anyway

Yes. And this is the main reason I will never hire him. Which is a shame because he seems to be great in all other categories.

Exactly! Some people are just cheap and don’t understand luxury, especially in an expensive city like NYC

There are agencies. Including ones that have access to famous Instagram models who publicly claim they don’t escort. However you will never find out about them unless you are well-connected.

His ad is back up. So for those who like their sex with a side of theft & violence, remember to scatter your valuables around the room like an Easter egg hunt and make sure a baseball bat is readily available.

So disappointing when I found out he’s one of the deplorable

All of it. I don’t drink, I don’t really watch TV, and can’t stand Grindr. Just goes to show how different people can be. But to each his own.

One man’s relaxing evening is another man’s depression

Literally was thinking the same thing 🤮

Nothing is necessarily “wrong” but opening up a conversation with a rate inquiry is tacky and immediately makes you sound poor. You basically introduced yourself as “Hi I’m a bargain shopper, is this the discount escort section?” l’m sure this is a turn off for providers, especially for the more elite providers who are only interested in wealthy clients. A wealthy client will NEVER start a conversation with a rate inquiry because money isn’t an issue. Furthermore his rates could differ based on the desired service (massage vs dinner companion vs BFE). But it appears you didn’t include what you were looking for or even a basic greeting.

Hmmm. Rentmen without the Rent. That’s a choice…

Provide some context please. No one blocks for no reason. I’ve hired him and he’s a great provider. Have you flaked before? Have you chatted previously or asked for additional pics without hiring? Did you ignore any instructions on what to do when contacting them? Did you open the conversation with “What’s your rate?” Is your profile new? Is your profile info incomplete? Are you not a Premium Member? Have you not left any reviews for other providers? Were you not respectful? Were you overly sexual or trying to sext for free? All these could be considered red flags. If you answered yes to any of these, that’s probably why you got blocked. And successful providers who have a steady clientele base and don’t have to say yes to everyone are usually very quick to block

Valid! Especially when they include rimming in their “I am into” section. Unfortunately it still doesn’t specify whether they’re into only giving, receiving, or both. Gotta talk to the provider to sort out the ambiguity. But it’s even more confusing when guys purposefully DON’T include rimming at all. Like this guy: BabyBearLA - Male Escort, Gay massage - Wilton Manors | Rent.Men RENT.MEN BabyBearLA Gay Escort in Wilton Manors, Florida, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find...

You can see them as long as you have a profile. You just can’t see them if you’re not logged in. You don’t even have to be a Premium Member.