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No info on the prior thread either, but looks like he added another 'h' to his already h-laden moniker. 😁

I’m a millennial. I work in HR at a very progressive, DEI-forward corporation. We’d tell you there is nothing inappropriate with the language and close the case. Agreed that many, many things from days past are not workplace appropriate, but this ain’t that. Just because a person interprets certain wording as personally cringey does not make it inappropriate. I definitely see a lot of people older and younger and same age as me constantly conflating “I don’t care for this” with “this is objectively offensive and wrong”; it’s a huge topic of conversation with my other young, millennial HR colleagues. 🙂 I personally find hyper-literalism to defend enforcement of personal wordsmithing choices to be cringey. But, to each their own. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Perhaps. Agree that context is king. (Common usage, not a pro-monarchy stance 😉). Also agree that things uttered across sheets are often ill-advised across the dinner table. That said, adding racially-charged slurs to the mix seems quite an escalation and significant scope creep from a discussion on terms of affection in sexual/ romantic context. Referring to black men as “boy” is really just a euphemism for much more egregious words intended to place them as lesser overall societally. One could easily demonstrate this as consensus among the target population too (i.e. black men). But, I am open to objective evidence demonstrating that twinkish 18-24 yo men as consensus are offended by being called “boys”. My personal experience is quite the opposite though. As to “girl” - I regularly hear men refer to female partners as “my girl” and have never thought “he’s a paedo/hebo”. To my ear, “my woman” strikes as more red-flaggish because it sounds possessive while “my girl” rather is accepted commonly to convey affection. What of “girl”-friend and “boy”-friend widely accepted as valid for adults too? Further, the wide usage of “my girl” and logic described for “boy” usage implications might suggest straight men also mindlessly reinforce the idea that that they value being silly, vapidity, ageism, mindless nights out, and valuing skin tone. Interesting position to contemplate. Consider this: I refer to my 30yo female partner to my 35yo male close co-workers by saying, “Heading out early boys. Taking my girl out tonight. I like to spoil my baby every now and then.” Are these 3 references icky/ cringey/ sexualizing children? Or are they all 3 commonly understood ways to simply convey affection? I posit the latter. As to seniors - I am not bothered by it but have not experienced “sweetie” or “dear” illiciting strong negative reaction from seniors. But, alas, I am a Southerner and we regularly call absolutely everyone “sweetie” or “dear” without insult taken (except to our Yankee friends of course 😉). But - a man who calls all women and only women “dear” or “honey” is probably guilty of a micro-aggression meant to diminish their stature comparatively to his own (reinforced by not doing similar with all other men). Again, intent and context should ideally prevail over hyper-literalism - including relevant cultural norms. Great discussion 🤓 particularly when we focus on sharing ideas/thoughts and avoid unnecessarily inflammatory language with thinly veiled insults to those with the counter-perspective (e.g. “50yo men calling 20yo lovers ‘boys’ sound like paedos/hebos… I mean, to me, anyway”). I can feel the admins about to remind us the thread is getting far afield from the topic though. 🤣

Absolutely agree with the sentiment for “boy” in contexts intending paedophilia/hebophilia role-play but… it seems questionable to always force the word into that box. Ever called a lover “baby”? What of a 25yo man calling his 50yo lover “daddy”? Is “loverboy” always in the boy-cringe category? What about “sweetie” or “cutie” in sexual context even though frequently pet names for children? I say I’m going out with the “boys” sometimes when referring to a night out with males friends in mid-30s to 60s. My point is, if the person saying “boy” truly means a playful word applied only to legal adults, perhaps any cringe should the responsibility of the listener not the speaker. Or, should we purge all word usage where literal meaning would be wildly different and abhorrent compared to informal common usage? Just something to think about.

You know what... I didn't look closely enough. The new pics are not the spouse so must be the friend that's being offered. I pulled up the pics they text to doublecheck. Sorry for bad info. 🤦🏻‍♂️ Maybe Ben is the taller one. Only saying Ian is the taller one based earlier comments here tha said the guy who does upper body is Ian. They never gave their names in person. Profile used to say Ian. Changed to Ben a few months ago. Same MF number; same pics. Always only the one guy in profile pics before this swap out. I am about 6'. One was taller than me; one was shorter. I've really no idea which is which name though. 🤷🏻‍♂️ The guy in the white T-shirt that's massaging someone in the second to last current pic is definitely the taller one. He's the one that is always in the profile pics and the one I find very hot. He's the one that did upper body/stayed the whole time/executed the HE (though both were there and interactive at the end).

The new pics swapped out on the profile are Ben, the partner. He was only in for maybe 20 mins of the tandem massage. Pics are dated though and he is not very tall FWIW. Not sure about other guy.

Yes, Money Up Front - as soon as you arrive. I did get the sense it might be different if not my first visit. Only time I have done MUF since others get burned often with diminished service, but he still gave it his all. 😁 Interesting nice guy too beyond the smokin body. I did not pay the deposit. I wanted two days out, so I just told him the time I wanted as FYI and that I'd text that morning to see if he was available. If he wasn't, we would try next time we met up. He could plan as he chose. He ended up being available.

Offers 4-hand with his partner Jozef. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/10266/

The pics are not recent. Pic 3/8 is closest absent the AI probably.

Yeah, definitely likes fees for pre-service services. Asks for deposit to schedule beyond same day. Started sweet, went bold on questions quick, was a bit sassy early msgs. Requested MUF when I arrived, only time I did. Did not impact service. Great full body massage, on bed. Changed into a tumble halfway, and session did not end after some components finished. Nice guy if you get more direct cultures. Will repeat next time we overlap travel.

In Miami where his home base is currently listed, or in Dallas where he is headed soon, or in NYC where he has been before, or anywhere anyone may have experienced the provider at the link given / with the unique moniker listed 🤣

Well what do we have here…. https://rent.men/Dayanboys Anyone with experience?

Well, he does say he is a unicorn after all… that’s just part of the magic. 😉

Fair enough; I read the profiles, too, before asking. 🙂 My question stands though - does anyone have any actual personal experience?

Anyone with experience? Think he may have used a previous name. RMass https://rentmasseur.com/Clausk RMen https://rent.men/Dakot

RMass profile last logged in 2021 so pics very old on MF. https://rentmasseur.com/Damianlatin Listing his various known names across threads for future searching ease. DamianLatin, Davis, TaleoVIP, DamienVIP, Damiandance Edit: current RMass link https://rentmasseur.com/DamianVIP

Links to RMass and MF ads. https://rentmasseur.com/KingVzla https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46026/ Anyone with experience other than the one deposit dispute above?

Pics are old. Decent enough massage. Lots of body contact. Standard extras plus offered more without upcharge. Quirky guy but very friendly. A nice one-time experience for me. YMMV.

Just going to put my dot here hoping you get intel before my next trip to Charlotte. 🤓 He moved from Austin, not Dallas though, I believe. I would have noticed this guy in Dallas. 😉

Marco’s MF ad also offering 4-hand with Polo https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41394/ Previous thread on the pair with feedback from clients Previous thread with no personal feedback

Duh... I had to send him my routing and acct info to resolve before the deadline of 3:12p CT or I woulda got charged more texas, fies and fynnes. Boy, are you going to be sorry when they put a lien your house.

Adding Tim's MF link text so searching by number works. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46714/

Too bad about the negative feedback on Tim. His pic sure rings my bell. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46714/

https://rentmasseur.com/BorisAl

Briefs/speedos until the ending. YMMV.