MtnVwGuy

He didn’t bring a table, at least for traveling to a downtown hotel. I’m not usually a fan of a bed massage, but he adapted well. I know MF says he’s outcall only, but I didn’t specifically ask if that’s still 100% true. He lives in the city now, despite the comments in an old thread.

I reached out to a few masseurs since I’m spending a few days in Chicago, and I’m very glad that Bobby is the one I chose: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/39883/ He’s mentioned in a couple old threads here, but no one seemed to have any info. He appears to be an under-appreciated gem, and I’m reluctant to share him with the rest of the world, but he deserves respect and some more clients if he wants them! All of the reviews on MF are consistent with my experience: he looks slightly older, but significantly better, than his photos; he’s very professional and conscientious with his craft. He’s a real masseur, but he indicated even in our first texts that he’s open to going beyond the therapeutic. As always, I let things flow naturally and made a point of not getting too handsy too quickly — but it was a great experience all around. If you’re looking for an escort masquerading as a masseur, please don’t contact him. He probably charges too little, but I think it’s because he’s a great guy with a day job and an active life who enjoys what he does. And he made me wonder why we spend so much more for guys who are much less skilled and much less classy (and no more easy on the eyes).

I saw him a couple times when he was on the West Coast. As I mentioned in the old thread, he’s perfectly cute / handsome, competent and friendly — I think I remember that he had a little dog, which was a conversational icebreaker for us. I don’t think the earlier complaints were about his face — just that some found him aloof (I didn’t), and perhaps he’s not a favorite of those who are strongly Size Motivated.

Hi Gentlemen, Today — after noticing him on RMass for a while — I finally met NicholasLow, and I had a great experience (as noted in the review I posted there). He’s really a lovely human being: a warm, sweet Brazilian who is respectful & skilled; everything in his RMass profile is true-but-understated. He’s a great addition to the San Jose area, and he seems to be under-appreciated / under-discovered. I give him a big thumb’s up, and would be happy to provide more details on request. He’s the real deal.

I saw him in San Jose this morning — I was cautious because of no reviews on here, but I’m glad I took the plunge! He’s really a sweetheart: quiet (partly his personality, partly because his English is good-but-not-great) and better looking than the photos suggest. [Let’s also give him some props for not overusing the AI on those pics, like so many others seem to do.]. He travels with a table, and keeps things neat & clean & hygienic. He starts slowly and gently, but makes a conscious effort to make you comfortable; I’m glad I trusted him, because (as I had asked in advance) he was able to go a bit deeper and work the kinks out of my neck & shoulders. When you contact him, he’ll describe a few “options;” overall he exceeded expectations, and I hope to see him again. He’s definitely not a scammer / phony, but seems to be a genuinely kind and compassionate soul with great hands. I definitely count him as one of the Good Ones!

Looks like the artist formerly known as SwimWithHim has now rebooted on RMass as ResetWithMe, currently on a West Coast tour.

He really seems to be cranking up the AI on the photos & prose in the RMass profile. Do they really think this turns people on, rather than off?

“Very hairy.”

God bless him if he’s real, but those profiles (particularly RMass) are looking pretty AI-generated.

The celebrity after whom he named himself is 56, and is probably not well-known to people under the age of 40 (to be kind) :)

Amusingly, he just hit me up this evening on a hookup app — sent me a full range of pics, and then went silent when I replied with mine. Not sure if he was going to mention that he’s a masseur/provider, or if he’s just horny and looking for action. Either way, I’ll save my $ (and my skills) for better opportunities

A nice human being, but I wouldn’t recommend (and I am posting here as a public service, since I wish someone else had done so before ). Happy to share additional information upon request.

Saw him when he was on a (pretty rare, I guess) trip to CA. It was the first time I ever hired for 90 minutes, and I was happy I did: very thorough, knows his craft, was traveling with a table. I came in without expectations and didn’t seek him out because of his physical type, but he did a great job (and his body is in great shape). He’s a smart, intuitive kid; we had a good conversation along the way. Would definitely hire him again if we’re in the same vicinity.

Sounds like it was a good experience, and worth repeating — but he’ll certainly expect to be paid the next time around, if that’s what you’re asking.

He was one of the first masseurs I ever hired, dating from a time when I really wasn’t sure what to expect, and I saw him a total of 3 or 4 times. My experiences were mixed, but I’ve sworn him off (and I don’t feel very tempted to backtrack on that). Happy to share more info privately.

I assume it means “awake and checking the site.”

Saw Midnight last week — it looks good visually, the music is OK, and J Harrison Ghee is a powerful performer, but it’s a tonal mishmash (with a silly feel-good final scene that seems to suggest that the moral of the story is Be Yourself And Let Your Freak Flag Fly!; a nice sentiment, but probably not the point of the original material). Chris Jones gave a here-are-a-few-suggestions review in the Trib, which I hope will help. Laurie Metcalf at Steppenwolf (one more week of performances) is absolutely worth seeing, btw.

The photos and bio seem a bit AI-generated (can we issue a public service announcement that *more filters are not always better*?)

The topic is about discounts, but a related thing would be “allowing things to go a bit further at the same price” — which seems to be a matter of making a connection / the provider enjoying what’s happening / etc. It’s probably not all about the client being “young and hot,” but maybe being respectful / intuitive / friendly / treating-the-provider-like-a-human-being / etc.

I was just there yesterday! Note that the eighth picture is a work painted by Jared French’s wife Margaret, who formed the “Ma” of their “PaJaMa” moniker. Paul Cadmus’ sister married Lincoln Kirstein (google it for history-of-the-arts lessons), and so she & Margaret probably had a lot to discuss.

Similar experiences to above: great guy, knows what he’s doing, respectful & smart, and I think I know what DCHere means by the (truly lovely) nice reveal toward the end. Definitely the kind of guy you wish you could hang out with for a few hours afterward (or dream of a FWB situation). SoCal is home, but he seems to travel once in a while.

Handsome Asian guy with a muscular body; does a decent job, gives a full hour. Not a huge conversationalist, but I haven’t gotten any of the diva attitude; always seems friendly and conscientious.

He’s good to repeat clients; always gives an honest full hour, and has actual massage skills. Friendly, good conversationalist. Great guy.

He’s definitely a very unique case, and like PaulM I find myself tempted to rebook against my better judgment. The first massage was professional & good (at a time when I had little experience); he clearly was enjoying things, and “extras” sort of proceeded naturally. The next visit was again good, and got more intense. Unfortunately, in later visits he always seems to assume that it’s time to proceed directly to the extras. Things always finish in much less than an hour, and honestly I think he does the *exact opposite* of treating repeat clients well. He really is physically beautiful and can be a quiet, friendly conversationalist, but I can see why for many it’s a one-time thing. Happy to share more info with other veterans 😛