BlackSheep

Hi - looking for a really good massage therapist in SF Bay Area. No HE or ME requirement, someone who is exceptionally good. When you are soar for days due to a regular workout who do you guys go to ? Thanks

How do you guys get a massage at Esalen? You need to be staying at a minimum, no?

Hi What do folks usually do during pride parade happening on Sun June 29th in SF? Is it mostly like hang out beside the main road watch folks pass by? or there are some fun activities to find or watch?

wow @SirBillybob what an interesting analysis. I had to look up few words honestly but I agree with you mostly. For the longest time I had this fantasy to get closer to a guy, feel loved, but when something close to that happened or about to happen it was surprisingly disappointing or less magical. I want to blame some to my older age, exposure & maturity probably. Some background, growing up in a very heavy religious background & more in a very heavily women family ... like there was not a single guy to hang out with for miles, 100 to 1 ratio kind of a thing. Never took off my shirt, I assumed my hairy chest as a feeling of shame growing up and used to hide even area close to the neck. Puberty was super hard. In addition all throughout my life I saw woman to constantly complain about men over and over and I ended up feeling ashamed for all mankind. I was groomed to be an ear for women of my household been the youngest, protected, loved but constantly over-sighted & you might have guessed it right by now, it was by my mom and it still effects me deeply. I want to feel more manly in a nutshell, nothing on dominance side as such but more confident. Hopefully this is a blind place for posting and hard to traceback. Probably I should also delete the next part. I used to have wet dreams alot at night, sometime multiple times a night, precum a ton when turned on that you can fill buckets with, but didn't "know" masturbation till I was 25, literally WTF. I thought precum is how u make babies, naive and stupid ...... how I discovered ejaculation while been not asleep was an eye opener. A large part of me just want to hang out shirtless, goof around and some soft intimate with a man probably meeting some of my younger year fantasies ... sometimes its less sexual more of a feeling I am equal and an adequate man. When I discovered masturbation I was like what else I am missing or don't know.

thank you guys for all the replies and sort of encouragements. Well grew up in super religious household @KensingtonHomo you guess it right .... I am somehow more into intimacy is what I feel like. Man's dick an't that attractive to me or I should say less attractive, so anal is for sure out. Men's normal hairy chest with normal build attracts me the most ... with a cute attractive manly face. I have tried massages before, one time I had a best of the best massage but I was not attracted to that guy at all it was a normal one time booking with that messure but that guy gave me an unexpected HJ which was a total shock, I should have stopped him but somehow couldn't and I hated the whole experience. I didn't try massage for about a year or so afterwards. Other one or two times were so so and felt like lack of connection or a bit of attraction.

@keroscenefire somehow unable to select your message directly to reply. Thats why I am not wasting escort's time by asking silly questions. Grindr I have never downloaded, not sure if my # will get tied to it. I have two phones one personal and one office. Personal I don't want to download to for sure, in case I download to office I am not sure the history will be kept or completely wiped off in case i delete the App afterwards, life is complicated. Sniffers I have been on a few time to observe, its hard to click or like someone, with Escort you are more sure atleast this the guy you want to hang out for an hour or so ...

Ironically I am in SF Bay Area.

haha ... what a talented and thoughtful reply @SirBillybob.... I like it ..

thank you for the replies folks, will check out prev threads as well.

Hi folks, Overall new to this, in my mid 40s, have been fantasizing for a very long time, been living a straight life, but technically a bi. If I hire should I be concerned about kissing, skin on skin or frontal ply? I don't want to do anal for sure, never received a BJ by either gender, this is one of the to do things for sure. I believe I am a strong top. I hardly see a guy that I want to meet, but ones who do seem filling the criteria I chicken out before contacting, thinking they must be meeting tons of clients and high risk for STDs. I really want to do some slow mouth to mouth kissing, frontal play and potentially receiving BJ. How does one ask, do you have any disease? the answer will always be of course No.

does he offer erotic massages? anyone had an experience with him.