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On 11/29/2022 at 12:50 PM, Lakeview guy said:
Peter Dracher is excellent, many modalities of therapeutic massage.
Hello, Lakeview -
Coming to Palm Springs soon and would love to find out more about his massage. Any info you could give me would be greatly appreciated.
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Unfortunately I started prone masturbation when I was quite young (6 years old) lying on my stomach with my soft penis pointed down and rubbing the top of my cock to completion - this was intensely powerful and it kept being my mode of masturbation until someone finally explained the facts of life and I realized I was doing it wrong (around age 16.) It took me another eight years (years filled with backsliding due to an overwhelming libido) to even approximate a normal ejaculation with an erect penis... and the manipulation effort was enormous and totally unfulfilling - when ejaculation finally came I actually felt nothing. I moved to Los Angeles in my twenties and found a gay mecca that welcomed me with open arms (I was handsome and muscular and intelligent) only to reject me time and time again when my performance abilities failed. And I didn't blame them. If someone had only told me the facts about masturbation and sexuality when I was younger it might have made a difference. I'll never know. I'm in my late 70s, I've had a successful career, and many friends who care for me. I consider my life a success. But I've never known sexual pleasure. I've worked with doctors and therapists and every type of sex toy you can imagine. Sometimes the universe just says no!
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The second and higher priced charge is if he comes to your location.
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Is there a spa here in NYC that you recommend for a great therapeutic massage... and if so, is there a masseur who you think is the best? For me this would be a great addition to this thread. Thanks!
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https://rentmasseur.com/mikegaite
Would love this if it's accurate!
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Happy Birthday, Mr. Baldwin! You just keep getting better!!
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How about HandsOnMenOnly -- HOMO
or maybe that's not PC these days.
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Sorry, Fresh Fluff, to hear you're going through so much pain. I've spent most of my adult life in physical therapy -- I'm religious with it! -- and it has taught me the recuperative powers of the human body. Of course nothing is ever going to be perfect... but I've learned to redefine pain in very beneficial ways. A year ago I fell and herniated a lower disc and I thought this time it was the end -- the pain was unbelievable -- and yet with small increments of movements and working with a great physical therapist ('great' is the one who works for you... they're all different!) it's now 9 months later and progress has been made. I'm in my late 60s and I know that it would have been quicker had I been younger... but 2nd, 3rd and 4rth opinions are good... and a great physical therapist is the best. I'll keep you in my thoughts!!!
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Hey @playwrestler - I think that the best Headscissor experience (and body scissor) with an escort was Jeremy Lee:
He scissored hard, crushed my head into his pecs it was hot. He's clearly muscular but isn't tall. So if you want someone tall he's not your guy... but I was soooo turned on the entire time. I told him it was the best scissor / muscle dom experience I had and he said that when he first got into the scene he was very unsure about it all.. but he's really worked hard to learn. And I would say it was hot.
Shredz did as well, but not quite as savagely as I wanted.
I've met with other guys. And we "wrestled" but it wasn't savage or like the fantasy (or some of the hot videos you see). And I've had dom experiences - not muscle domination, mind you, but good mind-fuck domination from guys who are buff. Mike Masters was one of the hottest mind bending dom scenes I ever had. And he choked me out - which was hot (no one else would do that for me, sadly), but he didn't head scissor me.
I've also been bear hugged by guys and had my ribs popped. I feel badly because I think I really scared one guy and he hasn't responded to me since. But I LOVED it. Sure it hurt for months, but, the memory in my head is so fucking hot now.
I have the exact same problems. I've met with guys and most are unwilling or don't know how. I try to explain to some before we meet how important it is, and even when we get together, but it doesn't always work.
I've almost given up, tbh.
I will say I used to wrestle with guys from global fight. I had some incredible scissor experiences with them. wrestled with steeltrap back in the late 90s (that was a great scissor experience) and I also was scissored by big calves (he popped my ribs and it hurt for two months - but I LOVED it).
I would love to find guys like beyondgenetics (or whatever his name is) I've seen videos of him knocking guys out with headscissors and that looks FANTASTIC! But I don't know if he does that scene any more.
Thank you torvc for such a great reply! Though I'm not into as much pain as you seem to love, I do get the thrill... and remembered pain can be sexy especially as you describe it. I'm more into the fantasy of wrestling and domination than into the real thing. A few years ago I met with Tristan Baldwin and that was fantastic!
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Thanks for all your replies... a lot to think on and consider!
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Where do you live? I find that really hard to believe you'd have trouble establishing a pretty healthy percentage success rate of willing partners.
I'm in Chicago -- but that said I only hire when I'm traveling as I'm married pretty much 24/7 -- So when I travel (not often) I usually look for traveling escorts as they're the ones with reliable reviews. Maybe since they think they'll never see me again they don't put as much effort in. Just a guess.
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There have also been a couple of escorts in the past few years where this request has been wonderfully fulfilled -- unfortunately they're both in California and it's been years since I've made the trip out there. They remain wonderful memories!
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I have a very specific request which I've explained in detail when hiring very well reviewed escorts -- and each time it's either been ignored or only indulged in for a short time even after reiterating the request. I'm wondering if it's just too weird or off-putting.
It's pretty simple. I love to be held in Head-scissors and body-scissors. That's it. Nothing too strenuous. I explain that I'd like it to be more of a boyfriend kind of thing. ie: Having the hold applied gently and then very gradually ratcheted up until I tap -- at which time I don't want to be released, I just want the pressure to ease up... and then start the process all over again.
I'm wondering if this is either too specific... or if it just comes off as unpleasant to the escort. Even though I'm told that it'll be fine and perfectly doable, it never works out that way.
I'm in good enough shape that I'm sure they're not afraid of hurting me -- and I assure them I'm not into pain anyway.
I also explain that I have tremendous erectile problems so the fact that I'm not visibly getting excited doesn't mean I'm not enjoying myself as I assure them I am. But it always ends up being mostly hugging and kissing... which I like, don't get me wrong... but it's not what I mainly want. I even get between their legs and get them into position etc etc... and very quickly they maneuver it back into kissing and hugging.
I'm now thinking it may be a more unpleasant scene that I think it is.
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I second the recommendation for Chris -- he's the real thing!
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A lovely man -- and an incredible masseur. I wish him much happiness as he continues his journey.
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The letters to the editor after the LA Times article are great to read. Love debate!
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Bump
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What a strange new world internet computing is. I always delete my junk mail after checking that nothing needed hasn't been accidentally sent there. Today in the "junk" section a heading caught my eye... and while I didn't move it to my inbox or click on any attachment, I peeked at it. A message sent by someone named "Tasha Buck" said that I had visited a child pornography site (false and definitely not something I'm interested in) and that if I didn't send her 0.1 bitcoins immediately within 24 hours that she would send my details to the police and plaster this all over facebook etc etc. I know that this is a scam, but it bothers me that she has my email etc. Has this particular scam happened to anyone here? I'm off on vacation for the rest of July so my instinct is to just let this go... But I'm wondering when I return if this is still happening is there some agency I should contact that deals with these sorts of scams? I can see how this might scare certain people into sending money.
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How many years is MANY years? Just wondering
the year was 2009 -- and I'd say he was in his early 20s then... so the pics now look right, as I'm assuming he's in his mid 30s.
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Many years ago for me too... but it was my most memorable massage ever. Nice personable guy with a very special technique... showered together after.
Relocating from Oakland to Palm Springs
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Check out https://rentmasseur.com/dannynps/ -- just had two incredible sessions with him a couple of weeks ago while on vacation... incredible body and incredible massage (he's certified) and he's generous with both!