CopenhagenGay

25 minutes ago, Thomas_Belgium said:

Hi Zippo,

As far as I know brothels like Villa Giani are forbidden in France. But the good news is that you can take direct high speed trains from Paris city centre to London or Barcelona city centres.

Yes, and it is not only brothels that are illegal - France is in the category of "abolitionist" countries where the act of paying for sex is in itself illegal.

France follows the same model as Sweden, where the provider is not doing anything illegal by providing their services - the client, however, breaks the law if paying for a sexual service.

I should maybe add that I always pay for an escort service when the provider is getting off as well - I would never expect to receive cum during a massage session.

3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Easy to explain:

It's fulfills the fantasy that your partner is actually into it.

There are other reasons as well.

I'm well aware that the providers I meet with all likelihood don't find me particularly physically attractive. I'm 36 and a bit inside the "overweight" BMI category, and - as such - not very attractive to young guys from 18 to their early twenties (who are the guys I'm looking for). Thus, I have to pay to meet them.

So I'm not naïve and I don't make any illusions that the young guys find me particularly attractive - otherwise I wouldn't have had to seek out guys specifically looking for money in exchange for sex (I could meet quite a lot of older guys for free if I wanted to, but sadly for my economy, I don't).

Nevertheless, that doesn't mean I'm indifferent to the young provider ejaculating. On the contrary, it's very much a turn on for me. Both because I find a young guy's cum quite tasty - and because I like the submissive nature of the act of getting cum on my face or in my mouth.