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Thank you - I avoided a disappointment.

Thanks for the update - much appreciated. I have been following him for a while on RM and on IG. He has made progression from being a DL escort/ public personal trainer early 2019 to full on escort/masseur in 2020. Glad to hear from you that his pricing is now at a more competitive $300/incall level. While his body looks exciting, his face is not the most handsome I have ever seen. That is just a question of personal appreciation. I am willing to overlook it if the sexual performance is superb, which it very well might be. But it gives me a reason to hesitate. The other thing that gives me pause is the following in his current RM ad: " Oh, I’m also a Master, bow down" Just as I was ready to give him a try, that sort of thing (which is a new thing on his ad) makes me cringe quite a bit. Perhaps I should try him out as masseur and see how the vibe is ...

Totally fair. I find the ad is carefully written also. He seems to be taking his business seriously.

It depends on the ethnicity. I love hairy gingers. Latin men usually have great hair structure on their chest. Then I also love smooth, athletic black men ...

Expensive?

I did not know that! How intersting. Does ManDate still exist?

I can only say nice things about Dave from Man4Man escorts. The first hire was a guy from California visiting NY (forgot his name - no longer in business). He was a real estate broker and didn't want his face out there on an escort site. His body was not the hottest, but he had such enthusiasm. I ended up hiring him 2x in 3 days. The other hire was 'Zach' from NY. Zach worked with Man4Man but also had his direct ad on RB. Hired Zach 2 times, the 3rd appointment attempt was a disaster. I feel bad for Dave, having to deal both with erratic escorts and erratic clients. Tough job!

Yes, it is reasonable. At that time, I was seeing a few hotties at 250/incall. There was no immediate need to pursue the $300 deal.

As of 9/14, he seems to be back in NYC. No mention of boyfriend. My negotiation with him was complicated. On a blue Friday afternoon, I contacted him. He quoted me $300/incall for a Friday evening appointment, which I passed on. He then said that it was, in fact, a generous offer, because his normal rate was $400/incall. I seem to recall that I mentioned it on this message board. After that, he complained to me that I was 'messing with his business model'. Long story short - he can be had at $300 if the time is right.

You can withdraw cash from ATM in Europe just as easily as you can in the USA. Citibank is everywhere. Some fees may apply. Which is still much better than being blacklisted by US Customs and FinCen for transporting $10K+ in cash going in and out of the USA.

Ayfun, as a solo provider, quoted me $400 incall in NYC. I passed. I shudder to think what the couples price would be.

You came to the wrong place. We pass judgment on people here all the time. Wake up!

He probably was totally hot 35 years ago. I am into Latin men. Following his social media and his RM ad, during the last 2 years, he is working the budget motel circuit in Peekskill, NY - Flint, Michigan - Nowheresville, FL. In other words, the very bottom of the barrel. I wish that a man like him would find someone he can feel attached to and settle down. Instead of DO WE REALLY NEED TO USE THOSE WORDS himself at the very bottom of the market. At his age.

Yes

Definitely ...

The best thing to do is to develop a level of camaraderie with other posters on this board. They will occasionally refer a name of one or more of their discoveries to you. This is how, I think it was 4 years ago, I discovered 'Justin Herring', whom I hired repeatedly when he was still a mode/personal trainer long before he started roiding up and coming out as a full time escort with an ad on RM: https://rent.men/JustinHerringg I have some success reaching out to models/personal trainers on Instagram. These guys have no escort ad in most cases but are, if approached discreetly, available. One of my best hires during the last year is a guy who has a one-picture ad on RM not even showing his face. He is a full time real estate broker who needs to protect his public image. Because of the limited advertising, his name never comes up on this message board. Regardless, he was and still is an amazing discovery.

I agree that NYC has many escorts, but many mediocre guys - or worse. The hottest guys in NY have their steady clients, work under the radar and don't advertise. I always thought that Miami was a tough market for escorts. Flakey clients, clients not willing to pay top dollar ... things like that. At least that is what I have heard.

The line judge could potentially sue him for a lot of money ... My vote is for Medvedev. He is not a hot guy to look at, but I like his style of play. Had to chance to see him up close last year as a guest in the Rolex lounge. Which has to be the absolutely best spot to watch the Open live. And if you get tired of Rolex lounge, they have 8 seats reserved for their guests, court side. Not bad.

I haven't but he looks enticing. You are a great talent spotter, my friend. Because of the video clips, I am inclined to think he is real. I don't know anything about his performance though.

If he is serious about this, he needs to post more than just one picture, roll up his sleeves and get to work.

Yes absolutely! I miss going to cigar lounges here in the city - have not been since COVID happened. Miss the camaraderie. When I search for 'cigar' in NYC, this is the only guy shows up: https://rent.men/TylerGrovesNYC I do like muscular gingers and this guy, if real, fits the bill. On the other hand, he does 'all genders'. Which turns me OFF. As I mentioned elsewhere, I do not wish to be confronted with the slightest whiff of a female scent when I go down on him. I guess I will keep looking ...

Same here! Let me know of any escorts in NY who fit that bill, please!

He looks decent. There is potential. But he is available to women also, which totally turns me OFF, quite a bit. I don't need to be confronted with the slightest whiff of female scent when I go down on him ... You got to draw the line somewhere.

His social media accounts are very active. He seems to be doing well. He obviously has the means to travel a lot and spend time on the beach ...

When an escort quotes me a high fee for a session, I reply 'thank you, that is above my budget at the moment'. In most cases, that is the end of the conversation. In a few cases, the escort asks me to make a counter offer. I never do because I fear the session would be lackluster.