I have not been around this board, as long as most of u. I guess, I am the weirdo of the group. Because, I live in the south, in a small city. I don't travel that much, anymore. And I am 60. I usually hire for multiple overnights. Never meeting before.
But, here are my two cents. Escorts are not a piece of meat. Your amount spent, does not give you the right to be a freak, unless the escort is ok with it. If he says No, then it's a no. Treating them with respect, will get u a lot further. Than acting like you are there owner.
I am not in great shape either!
So, my advice. Treat them like a person!