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We all know that the sauna or steam can be classified as a cruising spot for gay men right? And most of us have had an experience inside it, whether it'd be in your local gym sauna or the more popular korean spots. It has also been a background for some gay pornos and part of our fantasies. I personally have a lot of experiences from these places, not just here in the US but back in my country as well. I think every country too has their own version of it, like in Japan, or Thailand or like Russian bath houses. Maybe you guys can post your stories of encounters here.. But I'll start... I think this was just a few days ago, when I decided to have a me time and spend my day off in a bougie kspa in central jersey, like less than an hour drive from where I live. This kspa has a restaurant, a cafe, different types of dry saunas and of course, the separate male and female wet areas where you're supposed to be naked. I was actually there a week before that day but I decided to bounce after having zero encounters because the life guard/patrol officer keeps on making rounds and cleaning the steam from the glass panels. Yes, the patrol enters the steam room in his regular outfit. Lol. Anyway, so going back, I was there early morning when they opened like 9 am, just to soak in the pool and have a little steam while waiting for the restaurant to open. I was also thinking that if it's early in the morning, the patrol officer wouldn't be as paranoid as like busy hours. True enough, it was dead silent during the morning. I have to wait until the restaurant opens at 11, ate my breakfast and then back to the wet area and by 12 noon onwards, that's when people started to come. Luckily, I saw one (idk if) russian or arab guy laying naked in one of the steam benches while the other guy, a bear, was starting to seduce him. Lol! He gradually came closer and positioned himself in the guy's feet and started caressing him. Like you're already there touching the guy's D but he's like hesitating. Me, on the other side of the bench started to get iritated like can we fast forward this scene like from the pornos? Lol.. So I got up, took the guy's dick out of the bear's hand and started sucking it for like two seconds to initiate the titillating portion lol! So then the bear took the D back and started sucking it while I was playing with his dick and also started sucking it. I just stopped when an asian guy (probably filipino coz he looks like me) entered and sat in between me and the bear. I know he's also interested in what's happening but I feel like he wants the other two guys for himself so I left because I don't like gays like that, like snatching your catch of the day lol! But like I have this habit of going back and forth inside the steam that I think the older white guys in the pool kinda noticed. When I went back to the steam, they were still there excluding the asian guy. But like, how can this russian guy stand the freaking heat of the steam for like an hour? And then I saw this white guy, dad bod, but like totally hot. Like his face almost looks like Sheriff Keller from Riverdale, idk if you will get the reference. Anyway, he was just sitting there beside me while looking at the russian guy, playing with his D while still laying on the bench. I wanted to like grab this dad's D but idk if he's up for it. Like I know he's watching them but some people just like to be watchers. He actually got up to get a closer look from what the other two guys are doing, but then he decided to step out after... So I went out and found him in the sauna room. I entered and sat across him. I really really wanted to taste him but like I have to initiate a conversation. So then I was fanning myself and started with the line "whoa, it's really getting hot in here" haha, the very common conversation starter in a sauna. And then we started talking. But that sauna is like exposed so I can't do anything inside. So I got out. But like my target for the day is him. When I got a chance to have a solo time with him in the steam, we started chatting and I locked my eyes at his D. When he noticed it, I asked, "can I?" pointing at his c*ck, and when he was about to get closer, suddenly the door opened. Ughh! It was another white guy, daddy type as well and a really tall one. He is good looking too, and seated in one of the benches with his towel covering his privates... Probably that made the impression with the Sheriff Keller look a like to step out again of the steam. I stepped out of the men's wet area just for a bit, and when I came back, he was already talking to the asian guy in the pool. And they looked at me when I entered. So I went in straight to the shower cubicles, and thinking, God this c*ck blocking b*tch! lol... By that time, it was almost two and a lot of people are already coming in, so I said to myself, the patrol officer will start his routine checks at those hours, I said, time for me to go... So like zero again... Got dismayed, so I just drove back to north jersey, and thought of going to this smaller ksauna nearby coz my luck ran out from the other one... I'll tell that story some other time. For now, maybe others would care to share theirs? 🤣

Tried Jason at Ciao again after a long time. He did way better this time. Massage was ok, but the rest just confirms my overall thought about asian masseurs: that they have the necessary "skill sets" to satisfy a client. Others like latinos, or white and blacks, yeah they have the face card and body (and the most important part.. Lol) but asian masseurs really work hard and are more versatile when it comes to client service lol..

Oh ok... I know that Jason

Any news with the new guy Jay at Prime/Ciao?

Had Peter again in his Flushing studio. He never fails with the massage, always more than satisfactory. I was just a little bothered about his hands because it’s rough, and you know it’s because of working too much as a massage therapist. I felt sad a bit. But yeah I just told myself, free exfoliation on my back lol! But yeah once we had the oil massage, it’s unnoticeable. And besides, halfway thru the massage, I was a little bothered with “everything else” so I was trying to speed it up because I was so excited with the other portion of our massage lol! But he remains a professional and still finished his routine even with some minor “distractions” from me lol! It was so relaxing, like especially because of all this blizzard mess. He says he has a lot of customers in flushing so if you guys wanna see him in manhattan, you still need to text him to avoid any mishaps. And if you need parking but couldn’t find one outside, there’s like a cheap one in BJs

Tried another typical asian massage place, located in Fort Lee, name is 201 Healthy Spa. It just caught my eye because there’s a lot of unusual amount of male clients giving review in google who received massages from women lol. So I just tried to ask if they have any male massage therapists and they said yes. So I booked it prior to this f-ing blizzard. When I entered, I already saw the masseur. Probably late 40s or early 50s typical asian man. The massage was excellent. It was so great that I was ok if there’s no hint of any sensual. Also the curtains covering the cubicle entrance are too exposed and walls in between are too thin and not all the way enclosed. So I was like, maybe those men are just happy with their female masseuses. Yeah, we ended with me satisfied with clean massage 😔🤣

Maybe they were thinking "Men's massage" like with women masseuse. Clarify that you need a male massage therapist.

Since nobody wants to do the honors then I will be the first one to review Shawn’s massage just a while ago at Flushing location. When I entered the location, first thing I notice is that he had this “arrogant” or gangsta kind of vibe. He didn’t greet me with a smile, or spoke at all, dunno if that’s because of language barrier issue. He continued to walk and instructed me to use the elevator. Looks wise, I wouldn’t say he’s more handsome than some of prime masseurs. He has this typical almost twunkish young asian chinese face. He has this really dominant aura despite us I think having the same height lol. Massage wise, you can really tell that he’s an amateur. He was also yawning and just wants to finish the day because I’m the last client in that location. So at that point I was kind of turned off a bit. He definitely needs some coaching when it comes to sensual massage. Then I think when it came down to massaging the gluteal region, that’s when things turned into a redeeming situation. I wouldn’t say mind blowing moves in a massage but enough to make me interested. I am, as always, the vanilla type of gay guy, so when it comes to the number one question of gays, disclaimer: I cannot answer that. But after those events, which surprisingly I led the rhythm of the “massage”, it was titillating lol. I dunno if it’s just the post valentines vibe lol. Funny enough, after the massage, he went back to like the poker face bad boy vibes that he had. Also we didn’t finish the hour, which was ok because I wanna go home early lol. Like 45 mins. Would I be a repeat customer, best answer is “not yet”. He really needs coaching from his co masseurs about sensuality and how to connect with his clients. But from what happened today, he has a lot of potential 👍 I miss Kurt, Timmy and Nelson tho, still my top three. But yeah, Shawn can compete with these guys if he knows the right way to connect with clients. I wanna hear what others who tried Shawn had to say, also if you wanna know the uncensored version of my review, you know what to do lol! Oh… how I miss this masseur Nathan from Thai Wellness in LA when I had my vacation, he has this really BIG potential too lol! Didn’t know thai guys could have a BIG heart…. (Sorry just some random thought) oh and side note, I’m annoyed that he said there’s no drinking water in Flushing location “anymore”

My go to masseur here in jersey for great endings "went to china" which in asian spas, is code for got fired lol. And now it's time to search again for another spa lol

Lol 😂

I’m a little bit disappointed with LA having no options for gay massages except this one. And like two other spas, one of which is co owned by Teddy. Don’t get me wrong, they have tons of masseur choices but like once you tried all of them, what’s next? Lol. The exhausting and tedious “solution” I do would be to search in google maps for male massage therapists. Or “male”. And if none appears, I have to enter filters “he” “him” or “his” lol. And then if several reviews appear, I have to read them one by one and check out if there are any gay client reviews, like back reading their old reviews, photos of them at times that seems to be gay. Lol. Yes, I’m a bit masochistic lol. But hard works pays off sometimes lol! Like before my flight tomorrow, I decided to find another massage place that has potential but close enough to my hotel. All of the other spas that has masseurs are actually almost an hour ride from me. But then, using my hard method, I found one 8 mins away from my hotel here in Montebello. I couldn’t divulge any “graphic” details lol! But to tell you honestly, it’s definitely more exhilarating to get a massage from these places that has both men and women massage therapists, I even have another female client right next to me. Imagine how discreet I need to be but you know you need satisfaction because that’s what made you do the research lol! Let’s just say that because of how exciting things turned out, I got twice the satisfaction. Boy that was very tiring… for the masseur, because he did great with the pressure and all. If you need more details you can pm me lol

It always depends on the face card and physique of the provider. Whether it sounds negative or not. Unfortunately, there’s another untapped category to possibly determine the pricing of our providers, and that is how “talented” or skillful they are with the work they do. Yes, I do prefer a budget friendly provider that’s skillful with sensual and erotic part of the session than the face and body card because I cannot just drop a thousand or 500 bucks for an hour or so, I am not that rich yet lol! But I’ve also experienced several hot and gorgeous men who never delivered the satisfaction that I wanted. I, for one, am into the skills than the pretty face. But there are providers that can be an all in one package, very rare, but there is.

Idk, the visual learner in me always prefers movies over books. 😂

@LuckyLechon try to differentiate infatuation with love. Just enjoy your moments together. Make it hot and memorable, but never ever make emotional connection because at the end of the day, when you guys are ready to call it quits, you’re gonna have a hard time letting go. Never happened to me, but I’ve heard tons of client’s stories… well actually I even have a friend wherein he thought there was an emotional connection with him and his gym instructor. Like he was blinded by all of the sweetness, that he paid for everything, new phone, new everything even like mortgage for the apartment, turning him into a full on sugar daddy. Idk if there’s money involved in your situation but if there isn’t, well aren’t you a @LuckyLechon

Umm, clips at least ?? Lol