Ohmynuts87

Good for you for taking matters into your own ... hands!
So few providers out there with 11" insertable length, you might be better served in your solo exercises (it's what they are) adding girth rather than length.
You don't have to spend a dime.
Work a finger or two in alongside the toy if the goal is really enjoying what's attached to a circulatory system. Enjoy the sensation of your hole on your fingertips - always lubed, fingernails against the toy. This will help you have confidence that your muscles truly can accommodate larger-than-average without pain, which helps with the relaxation necessary to love it every time. 
No, go fuck yourself 😘😘

Just keep getting guy inside. Having lube and no lube makes a difference for both top and bottom. If starting try lube. If want to try no lube  than go for it but get ready. I enjoy using spit as both a top and bottom 

Anal training isn't so hard and it is loads of fun.

Some bottoming threads 
 
https://m.youtube.com/@timjamesfit
https://m.youtube.com/@BottomsDigest