dcguy20

Today I set out to make an appointment with someone I've had my eye on. In my introductory text I always mention that I have 2 cats. From past experience, it has been an issue with both in and out calls based on one's sensitivities. The guy in question said he's allergic to cats, but mentioned he would wear a mask during our appointment. I kindly refused and said that wouldn't work for me. He responded saying he feels he's being penalized for being honest. Not my intention at all. Was I out of line?

I've had three of those over the last few years in DC, and they all eventually left DC. The most recent being November.

He was my biggest surprise of 2024. Nice guy, even better looking in person, and a nice experience. Have seen him twice. Once at my place in DC, and once in NYC. Crossed signals/ bad communication caused a 3rd appointment not to happen.

I met him for the first time just prior to the pandemic. Had a great time. Have seen him a couple times since, but my last appointment with him over a year ago was kind of meh. We definitely weren't in sync and it felt awkward.

I've been seeing a guy in NYC for a massage since 2008. Longest time between massages a few years (much less travel to NYC). I last saw him 2 years ago.

He was supposed to come to DC in November. I was definitely interested. He canceled his trip and told me he would come here after the holidays.

No worst appointments this year. A couple of mediocre ones, and two cancelations after having confirmed. One of my long-term providers left DC.

It was just an odd thing to say. I might have taken it the wrong way, but I can't help how I felt at the time it was said.

I saw a provider earlier in the year, and as I was getting ready to leave he said, "so, are you retired?" (I had just turned 60). I left feeling completely deflated, and don't respond to his texts when he let's me know he's in town. I didn't hire anyone for several months after that.

I hope this means the end of shaved crotches.

I'm able to view my messages. I'm logged into rentmen.eu

He quietly disappeared. I was Facebook friends with him at one time, but he never posted. I think my last appointment with him was about 15 years ago.

I went to see it twice last weekend as it's my favorite musical. This production did not disappoint, and Joshua Henry gave a very moving performance as Coalhouse. His voice just soars. Not a weak link in the cast. The score is absolutely beautiful. New Music was a highlight for me. I had some minor directorial quibbles (I gave leeway due to the 10 day rehearsal process), but overall it was a magnificent evening.

The 1988 Broadway production of Our Town is my favorite. That's the one that featured Spaulding Grey, but he was out the night I saw it. It was taped for PBS and can be seen on YouTube. I also saw the closing performance with Dom Ameche as the stage manager, and Helen Hunt as Emily Webb. She was excellent. The Paul Newman production in 2001 left me cold. The imaginary scenery is in the notes of the original play.

He no longer has an ad on Rentmasseur. I noticed his ad on Rentmen changed when he was in DC a few weeks ago.

My premium account renewed automatically today with the Visa I have on file. I don't like the new format either.

I had scheduled a massage appointment with a traveling provider whom I've seen a few times already this year in DC. He usually stays at a hotel right in DC which is very convenient to where I live. A few hours before said appointment, I confirmed with him and asked where he was staying. He was staying at a hotel in Virginia and wasn't close to a metro station. I priced Uber, and it was over $30 each way. Metro to bus would have taken me well over an hour to get to him. I canceled my appointment and sent him his fee since I was the one who canceled (he didn't ask for it). Lesson learned. Before I commit to an appointment, I need to find out exactly where someone is. But I also fault him for not listing the city he was actually in, though he was the one who reached out to me. I have no problem traveling if the person is close to metro (I don't have a car).

I joined his Only Fans, and he seems to have a preference for twinks, which made me think we might not be quite a match with a hire.

His ad is listed as expired now.

He was just in DC. I hesitated contacting him as he has no reviews on his Rentmasseur ad.

My appointment with him was for a Friday evening. I heard from him the following Monday saying he had to study for an exam. I met someone who did a movie with XL, and confirmed he was a bit flakey.

I won't be up in NYC until October, but I would definitely like to see him.

His RM profile disappeared years ago. I had an appointment with him in Atlanta in 2016 that he was a no-show for (he even confirmed with me ahead of time). Haven't seen any video work from him in years.

I still see a masseur occasionally that I met in 2008 (or maybe earlier) from the now defunct site Massage M4M. He no longer advertises. I last saw him in February of 2023 as I don't get to NYC much like I used to.

I'm surprised he doesn't have any reviews.