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Hi all- have been a forum reader for years but not so much a poster. However, this time I’m trying to elicit some help after trying to find a provider locally. 
 
I’ve hired providers in the past, but have mostly stuck with 1 where we’ve built up a connection over the years. As I’ve gotten older I’ve realized that the emotional connection has become just as important as the physical attraction. (I hired someone recently, which physically might have been the most beautiful man I’ve ever touched. He was nice, sweet but because we didn’t connect the sex part was not as fun as it should have been 😀)  
So, trying to see if anyone has any recommendations for NYC based providers that would be a fit for me?
friendly, intelligent.  I’m in my early forties. While age isn’t a huge issue if we connect, but I have generally realized guys 35+ are better suited for me.  Muscular I Love kissing, cuddling, having someone play the flirty alpha type.  just want someone to make me feel attractive and desired  I really don’t want to come across as a choosy little queen. I don’t have much of a dating life so I’ve had to turn to other ways… 

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Hi all- have been a forum reader for years but not so much a poster. However, this time I’m trying to elicit some help after trying to find a provider locally. 
 
I’ve hired providers in the past, but have mostly stuck with 1 where we’ve built up a connection over the years. As I’ve gotten older I’ve realized that the emotional connection has become just as important as the physical attraction. (I hired someone recently, which physically might have been the most beautiful man I’ve ever touched. He was nice, sweet but because we didn’t connect the sex part was not as fun as it should have been 😀)  
So, trying to see if anyone has any recommendations for NYC based providers that would be a fit for me?
friendly, intelligent.  I’m in my early forties. While age isn’t a huge issue if we connect, but I have generally realized guys 35+ are better suited for me.  Muscular I Love kissing, cuddling, having someone play the flirty alpha type.  just want someone to make me feel attractive and desired  I really don’t want to come across as a choosy little queen. I don’t have much of a dating life so I’ve had to turn to other ways…