UncutDad

Good luck. We'll definitely be awaiting those details.

He's a very hot man. But your description of the experience is what I expected. Personally, I wish he would just go massage women or work in a spa. I have no doubt there are hundreds of gay men that have blue balls from resisting the desire to get off in his presence. I've been to many straight massage therapists that do not advertise on gay massage sites. I wish he would do that. It's like going to an ice cream store and them just giving you an empty cone. 😞

This may be a little late to the topic, but I have tried him. Massage was ok. He does have a great ass.

Damn, you are correct. I googled his name and two videos came up. I would not have recognized him if it weren't for his tattoo in one of the videos. Thanks

Had no clue he did porn. Do you remember his porn name?

I'm completely with you on the aspect of them giving a good massage. There are few guys that are good a the massage part. So if they've given me a solid massage with sensual or erotic aspects, those guys should be tipped. I use a traveling massage guy that keeps his rate at 140.00. This guy travels to my city (and others). He has gas, hotel and food expenses. He's charging less than what the average to below average massage men are charging that live in my area and he delivers one of the best massages ever. So yes, when someone is excellent and reasonably priced, you should tip them. Even small amounts show an appreciation.

It's really a distinction without a difference when you liken older MT's as old food and I suppose you can call it "just paying attention". But when you refer to a group of people as "old food" or are repulsed by "old men touching you" you just reveal a vapid mind. You're free to disrespect all the groups that you want. If that's what makes you feel valid in life, judge on, man.

Yea, that's your folly. You seem to think you have the definitive answer for everyone. You've seemingly impressed yourself with what you think is "correct" and decided that's the end of the topic. Discounting anyone else that doesn't align with your POV. Thankfully, no one sees you the way you see yourself...well maybe your cats do.

Not sure who wrote it, but the "Karens are out in force" comment made me laugh. 1.) We're really still using the term Massage Parlor? Is Mae West running them? You'll have to Google that name Gen XYZ or whatever you are. 2.) To Pubic_Assistance, I'm older and your comments don't indicate anything to me except ignorance. And guess what? I have below zero interest in young guys. It's like eating green cantaloupe. It will be fascinating to see how you are dressing and behaving should you be lucky enough to get to be a "fetish" or "old food" of being older. 3.) To answer the original poster's questions. There are older massage men out there. Two of them that immediately come to mind are Rob_CMT who used to live in NYC. And Hud who used to live in Chicago. They are on RMasseur and MasseurFinder when they work. Both are traveling massage men now, and I can say with confidence that as far as massage goes, there is no young guy or even slightly older than 40 guys that can come close to their massage styles...they are mind blowing massage men. If there are better older massage guys than these two, i'd like to know about them. Seriously, please forward their names to me. Older men are not a fetish, and they (we) can be very hot. 4.)To the original poster. Ignore the haters. I am grateful to be recognized as a Daddy in the community and I turn down young guys with regularity...again, "green cantaloupe". I get more offers for hooking up now than I did when I was in my 20s, 30's and 40's 5.) Ok, i need to get ready for bed...can someone help me with my casket-bed? I'm so old. Lol

OscarBear on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36958/

I’ve tried to contact Oscar Bear in NYC for the last 4 weeks via text. I instantly get back a form message about how he’s booked up and “if someone cancels i’ll let you know” followed by directions to his only fans page and that he will be visiting my city again in 2024 and closing with FaceTime sessions available for $50 for 15 minutes. To be honest the Oscar Bear approach is starting to annoy the piss out of me. There are men like me that go on the massage websites that want real massage. If there is extra thats cool. But I need real body work. Oscar Bear looked like he could give a real massage from some of his videos. But if he want’s to do the porn/scort route more than massage, please dude, go to develop that. Thankfully, Hud is coming to NYC at the end of the month and just in the nick of time. His skills are at an elite level. He doesn’t play games, charges a very reasonable rate, and doesn’t try to upsell you on anything. But he’s no prude either. Many of these joke massage men could learn a lot from Hud's way of doing business. My goal this year is to promote more guys like Hud when I find them. He’s not for everyone because he’s older but he is reliable and a natural man that I consider a true Pro if you need a massage with a little extra. Sorry for the rant. It’s tough to need body work and be horny.

I've hired Ethan twice. If he focuses on the massage, it's pretty good. For some reason he likes to start with feet. I usually take care of myself at the end while zooming in on the visual. My personal experience is to go to him one time and if you want something else for another time, he'e likely to do it for a reasonable uncharge.

Any one tried this guy. He's hot AF in my opinion. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/45430/

JD is back on R.Masseur and was on Masseurfinder. I've hired JD twice. Both times were just kind of oK and they totally emphasized more of an escort experience so i cannot say what his massage was like. Once he arrived at my place he asked if it was ok that he didn't bring the table. I agreed though it was a different approach to what he was advertising (massage) Once inside, we started messing around (no massage). He tried to upsell me both times and i told him "what are you upselling me, you don't eve have a table" I told him he was free to go if he wasn't comfortable doing what I wanted since due to him the situation had changed. So we got through it. I tried him twice because I wanted to see how far he would go in a second round. I'll just say that he did what we agree to but there was no primal urges. He was attractive back then Fast forward to today and I'm looking at his photos, He's older. His face has filled out and his hair is longer in a like a 1970s "Love Boat|" way. He's had more professional photos taken, but they're not good. I can tell he's not happy with his pics as well because he's editing them with without his face in some and he's showing older body pics. His looks now might be for some guys. But he looks different from the 8 years ago when i first met him. He's a nice enough guy, but I think there are better choices. I'm cool with escorts, erotic massage and therapeutic massage guys depending on what I'm in the mood for. But upselling during a session is just a turn off for me. I find it to be the mark of someone that is truly not a Pro.

Do any of these spas or hamams offer older men or really masculine men? The guys that stand on the street are just way too young for my taste.

I also had the same experience as LGatton. Booked ahead of time and reconfirmed the day before. He confirmed back. Then the day of the appt. - totally ghosted. Got a tepid apology four days later.

After setting up and cancelling 3 different times, I was finally able to get with Aldo in July of 23. I can say this. When I left his place my thoughts were that in the future if I'm having such a hard time hiring someone, there is probably a reason for it. This applies with Aldo. He could not perform what we agreed to and he had a bit of an attitude. He also cut the hour time to about 40 minutes.

I've hired him twice. First time was good. Second time was rushed. He was trying to do massage back then. Though not very good at it.

I hired HBI earlier this year. He came to my hotel and provided everything we agreed to and I paid him. The only issue I had was that he was very slow to leave and I had a commitment that I had to get to. He was taking forever to get dressed and kept looking at his phone. I literally told him, "dude we gotta go NOW". I might hire him again to see how it would be for a second time.

I've never had Vlad watch the clock with me.

I see Vlad every time I travel to NYC. He only does Outcall massage on the bed. It's not bad for a bed massage. There is a bit of a language issue, so be sure you ask for what you want via text, as he relies on a translation app. It can also be tricky/last minute sometimes to get him as he has a day job, though I don't believe it pays that well. Vlad is a very sweet guy. I always tip him.

You should have asked why the erotic part was left out. His ad posts that he does erotic. His private pics show a lot of skin. I wouldn't be happy about it and I would ask before getting off the table what's going on.

I agree. When they say up front that they do not provide sensual or erotic services I respect that. I've read that in a few ads and I appreciate the upfront communication and quickly move on.

Hey FLJock, by all means, please do try your luck with Tito and let us know if you get lucky. If you do get lucky, I'd love to know the combination. I spent over 2 hours with the man (almost half with us both naked) I gleaned a lot of information about him. He even told me his move for getting grabby hands to not touch him. Maybe you're the str8 whisperer :-). But I'll await your report should you give him a try.

I've hired JakeDaddy a couple of years ago. His place at that time was very close to mine. FLJock's comment about elastic hands was my experience also. I think I read some reviews that stated the massage was good. It wasn't good for me. I have two basic criteria. I want a firm pressure massage and if you can't do that well, I will quickly go for the HE. He didn't do either very well. His place was a cluttered, he was not set up for the appt. and he had a yappy dog that he kept having to control. Does that sound relaxing to you? It wasn't for me. I then tried to hire him in August of 23 for just an erotic session. He was staying in a hotel and indicated last minute that he had his dog with him, so i declined. Again he was staying within blocks of where i live and he offered to do an Outcall at the end of the evening since I was three blocks away, but even for that he totally flaked. I know that he did not know who I was from any or our texts, so I had a buddy contact him right after he canceled on me and amazingly he was available. Jake is an upseller which I was ok with. But I don't know why such unprofessional behavior. He's clearly just in it for the money and he doesn't really care about what a client wants. My summation is the more money you offer, the more attentive he is.