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Yes, it happened to me twice. I stood my ground both times. His goal was to intimidate me into giving him money. But when he saw I wasn't falling for his threats and wasn't bothered by his attempts to embarrass me, he backed off and left. Really, no one cared at the hotel reception.

It’s definitely a dangerous situation, but I've managed to navigate a few like it. Here's what I’ve learned: - Guy asks for an advance (via phone/text) before coming to your place: I refuse to give in to such demands. He may argue, but there’s not much he can do after that. - Guy arrives at your place and demands upfront payment: I stand my ground and refuse. I've had two experiences like this: one guy threatened to "cause a scene" at the reception. I told him, "Be my guest, I’m not scared." After some back-and-forth, he left. In another case, the guy simply refused to leave, so I had to call hotel security. Some guys ask for payment to "give to their driver, who is waiting outside." Just say no. - You go to his place and he asks for payment upfront or tells you to leave money on the table: Just walk away. The only truly dangerous scenario is if you’ve asked for a four-hands massage, or if he has an accomplice hidden in the room. In that case, you’re outnumbered. My advice is to make an excuse (e.g., "I have a friend waiting in the lobby") and leave immediately. - Some guys ask for more money after the service: Just say no if you didn’t agree on that amount in advance (unless you’re happy with the service and want to tip extra). Hope this helps.

It was over texts. He kept insisting I pay him in advance. After haggling for some time (e.g., "transfer at least $100"), when he realized I am not going to pay anything in advance, he stopped texting.

He asked for payment before he got to my place. I said no.

He insisted that I pay him before the session. I declined.

I had him last week. No doubt his pics are photoshopped. He does not look that tall or beefy. In fact, his face was also slightly different. Pics could be at least 8-10 years older. Expensive $250-300 range. More an escort than a masseur. Did not come across as an a-hole but nothing particularly good to remember either.

Hi all, I’m visiting Denver and Salt Lake City in May and wanted some recs! Looking for someone who has primarily good (deep tissue) massage skills, but also great at sensual aspects throughout and great posterior (for added fun later). Thanks in advance!

On MF.

Messaged him many times but rarely responds. Tapped me on Grindr once and chatted a lot. But then ghosted again when I wanted to set an appointment.

He claims to no longer do escorting. Says his massage is strictly therapeutic. In one text message, he asked me if I have got coke for him.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46412/ Anyone has tried this guy? What kind of extras he offers?

I scheduled an appointment with him in DC. Arrived to see a disheveled and unclean hotel room. He usually travels with his bf, who also advertises on RM. They have overlapping clients in the same room. So, it is the same bed and same towel for all of them. Both of them definitely upsell on the spot. He asked me to put money aside first on the table. I told him No. I will pay him after the session as all clients do. He started arguing with me. This went on for a few minutes. All this while, I noticed his photos on RM are indeed photoshopped. He looks very different and much shorter in person. After realizing what a conjobs both are, I decided not to proceed and left.

Hello, During pre-COVID, there used to be a African-American masseur who would visit DC frequently and host in his friend's apartment in Van Ness. I went to him twice but did not store his number or name. He told me that he was originally from Honduras or Belize. He was very fit and athletic. Anyone recalls the guy? I have not seen his ad after COVID. RD

I agree. I had him in July. He did not give good directions to his apartment. So, I spent half an hour waiting and searching for his apartment. I told him that the building number he mentioned is not written anywhere. The massage, despite clearly specifying that I wanted it to be sensual, was a half-ass therapeutic one. He later messaged me that he does not do sensual for the first time. However, he feels more comfortable with me and would do sensual next time (at a higher price). Total rip-off.

I saw Samuel a few months ago. I hired him for 60 mins but the massage lasted for 30-35 mins. He quickly upgraded the massage to the erotic version. He definitely has a good body. But I will not repeat.