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Thanks for your very interesting reply to this thread. You probably know better than I. While your point about marketing is a good one, however, I think it reinforces my perception that the honest escort -- the one who intends to provide the service as best he can -- is more likely to use a real name. Whereas as the dishonest escort -- the one who plans to do as little as possible to get paid, is not interested in creating a repeat client base and is merely marketing as a sort of fraud --- is likely to choose the vague moniker "XXL" "Hung", whatever. It's probably a subliminal choice. The escort who uses a name that could be real sees himself as creating an alter ego that will have an actual human interaction. He aims to have a base of regular, repeat customers for a longer term service business. The faker has no such interest in his clients. He doesn't need to go to the trouble to create the alter ego, but only needs to grab the attention of his "victim" with a fake photo and flashy moniker so he can get a quick payment and never see the guy again. Of course, neither kind of name -- real or moniker -- guarantees any kind of experience, and there are plenty of exceptions. My point was more one of a general observation, and I want to point out that I never used the word "respectable." There are, I believe, respectable escorts as well as users, no matter what name they take. But it does seem there is some correspondence between the type of name an escort chooses and the kind of escort he is..

I just saw Jake in NYC and it was one of the best escort experiences I've ever had. And I've been hiring on and off for about 20 years. He is a very attractive daddy type, beefy strong man, VERY well hung, who does his best to show you a good time. Very easy to talk to and reliable. Top of the line.

I thought you meant Marco Blaze, the amazing pornstar of a few years ago. Clearly the guy expects you to make that association in order to get you to click. He's pretty amazing looking though, if he's real.

It's interesting how escorts choose a name. Many just choose some vague moniker like JockXXL or HugeTop, or something impersonal. While others make up a real-life type name like Joe Smith or Paul Jones. Personally, I find that the I'm much more likely to hire an escort with a "real" name as opposed to fake sounding descriptive names. Generally, I've found that the "real" name guys tend to be more "real" escorts, as opposed to all the fakes out there who are regularly denounced on this forum. There's certainly no hard and fast rule, there are guys on both sides who are "real" and those who are fake. However, if you look at the escorts who are named by posters here as their all-time favorites, I think you'll see most have either a full real name (first and last) or at least a first name. My best experiences for example have been with Jason Markus, Steve Roberts, Mike Grey, Rafael Alencar, Mario Ortiz, Rafael Carreras, Adam Michaels, ANYCStud, Vito Gallo, Bruce Beckham, and Marek (porn name Jake Havoc). Only one with a descriptive moniker. Of course many of these are pornstars who more or less have to have a "real" name so they can have a memorable identity. On the other hand, most of the fakes I've come across have one of those descriptive monikers. I won't name them, but just look at the fakes named on these forums and you'll see what I mean. The thing is, the monikers are hard to remember and mostly meaningless. Which is the point, I think. I can't remember all the XXXLthis and Jockwhatever names. The straight guy who is trying to make a few bucks without really having sex doesn't intend to be around for long. He doesn't want an identity. He just wants to have a name for a temporary ad that will draw some eyes. Maybe my perception is flawed, but it looks like to me that the more serious escorts go to the trouble of choosing a "real" identity. It's only a generality, of course, but that's the way it looks to me. So my message to serious escorts is: choose a real name and stick with it if you haven't already. It says something about you.

Sorry, I didn't mean to agree about the South American part, I thought that was clear from my comment. Just agreeing about the 1990s being rich in good escorts.

Agreed although let's not cast stones about South Americans: Mike Grey and Rafael Alencar are both Brazilian. But your bringing up Steve Roberts reminded me of the first time I ever hired, and how nice and helpful he was.

I have not heard back from Peto for several days, so I think you're probably correct. He's is very likely not here.

For those who don't advertise, how do you find them or how do they find clients?

But do you even bother to read the RM reviews? Or just figure they're fake?

I notice there are many escorts with loads of positive RM reviews who, I then learn from this forum, are in fact "fakes". Even the red-ribbon reviewers don't seem to mean anything. Nor does the "gold" status or "verified" photos. I guess the reviews are just very easy to post and some escorts spend time posting under a lots of different names.

I admit that I don't hire anyone who lists "straight" orientation on the basis that if they're really turned off by my gender, it's not gonna be fun. I know the idea of sex with a straight man turns some guys on, so it's part of a specific fantasy, just not mine. "Bi" generally means gay I think especially for those guys from cultures where they can't quite admit "gay." Or as pointed out for "ask", that they just want to keep all the doors open for clients. I'm ok with hiring bi or ask, but not straight.

Marek goes under Megamarek in NYC is indeed the former pornstar Jake Havoc. He has a huge, thick cock and is a very nice guy, great in the sack and willing to please.Not easy to take it. He's probably versatile if you ask or pay a little more, I"m not sure. He was in the films.

I've hired escorts on and off for a number of years. It seems to me that there used to be a good number of hot, responsive, responsible men in the profession who you could count on for a good time. I'm thinking of guys like Jason Markus, Mike Grey, HotboyWill, Adam Michaels, who made you feel like they wanted you to be there, instead of wishing you would hurry up and leave. I saw these guys multiple times and it was always a pleasure, friendly, and hot. Just wondering if those of you with experience think there are still escorts of that quality in NYC? If so, who?

Thanks, I'll give him a try as his photos are enticing and he responds quickly at least, which is more than I can say for most.

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I just wanted to find out if anyone has any update info on BigDickGinger in NYC. This thread goes back a ways and has some good and negative stuff, but his RM reviews are numerous and very positive. Anyone have new experiences with him?