they’re too scared, busted a nut already to save money, never intended to meet you, or actually had real shit happen, it don’t matter. It sucks. When there’s no contract you’re really throwing the dice. I don’t recommend a deposit. It’s limiting yourself. The amount of people that are not into exchanging virtual money due to whatever reason is real. unless you’re traveling a far distance I wouldn’t suggest a deposit. Use your instincts dude. Talk to people on the phone. Get a vibe and have no expectations. Get a real job so you aren’t dependent on the gig. A lucrative activity has its pros and cons this is one of them.