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It wasn’t a scam, and we’ve become better than friends. Sometimes these stories do have happy endings (albeit rarely) and I was probably just as pessimistic as the rest of you.

I hired him in DC and was really disappointed. He’s older now and his pictures are not accurate at all. Honestly I should’ve just left.

Read above. Lies about services, uses fake photos. 

Steer clear of him

Arrogant and is learning English. Was almost impossible to communicate with him. 
 

Would not recommend him. He also didn’t deliver services he promised. His pictures did not match. Don’t make the same mistake I did. 
 

I saw him in Tampa, but he’s now down in Wilton Manors, or Ft. Lauderdale area.

30 minutes ago, zeyfur said:

Is your chezk/ Slovak in a abusive environment 

No, that’s one of the reasons he sticks with me and nobody else because I treat him like a person and I don’t just look at his physical beauty which is what people have been doing his whole life.

27 minutes ago, Your Man in Arlington said:

Or it's a sign that they're there really into and really good at this line of work and know how to deliver a superior experience at all levels, including the not-just-sex aspects. I would never think that a personal trainer or barber might have "too many" good reviews, yet a important part of both of those lines of work are the soft/social aspects of the job.

And that’s a decision that the person hiring has to make. The problem is comparing those industries to this industry is apples and oranges in my mind. This industry can be very abusive by clients (and studios). Both emotionally and physically on the provider.

Hence why I said a lot of reviews could indicate someone being jaded. Not by any fault of their own but being stuck in an abusive environment too long.

4 hours ago, ApexNomad said:

Your comments reveal a profound immaturity and a glaring double standard. By now labeling providers with numerous reviews as robots, you not only demonstrate a lack of understanding but also expose your own biases. It’s telling that you find it acceptable to sleep with a porn star, whose experience is likely far greater, yet dismiss providers based on their review count as if they’re less deserving of respect.

Your focus on my reference to nationality is a weak attempt to deflect from the hypocrisy in your stance. To assume that someone’s worth diminishes with experience is not only misguided but also reflects your inability to engage with nuance.

Having taken the painful labor of reading through your previous thread, it’s clear that you’re more invested in preserving your narrow view than in recognizing the rich complexities of the industry. This speaks volumes about your perspective and worldview. Ultimately, your refusal to confront these complexities reveals a limited understanding of human experience, prioritizing shallow judgments over the dignity of others.

Perhaps. I’m glad we’re exploring this. 

4 hours ago, ApexNomad said:

So, it’s a red flag if a provider has too many reviews, but somehow it’s fine to sleep with a famous Czech porn actor who’s likely been with countless partners? You call it a preference, but your original post reads as judgment, plain and simple. Trying to spin it now doesn’t erase the double standard—you hold providers to one set of rules while making exceptions when it suits you. That’s hypocrisy!

And let’s be clear: I’m not putting words in your mouth. Your original post did all the talking. If you don’t like how it sounds, maybe you should rethink what you’re actually saying.

In addition when I said “red flag” I was not talking about STD’s. It’s you who are shaming them by assuming that’s what I meant. 
 

it’s a red flag for me because it shows they’ve been doing this a long time with many people and perhaps may be jaded. For me not only is the sex important but also the conversation and actual discussion. When you’ve had 100+ clients you can act like a robot. That’s why it’s a “red flag.” I should have made this more clear and I’m sorry you misinterpreted what I meant. You should not jump to assume I look down or am shaming anyone. Of course from my public discourse about my own situation I do not shame anyone in this industry or look down on them at all! That would be extremely hypocritical of me.

9 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

So what if these two both have over 750 reviews! At least they will know exactly how to have a great time.

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Great, hire them. I was curious to gauge what people thought about a provider and their number of reviews. 

4 hours ago, ApexNomad said:

So, it’s a red flag if a provider has too many reviews, but somehow it’s fine to sleep with a famous Czech porn actor who’s likely been with countless partners? You call it a preference, but your original post reads as judgment, plain and simple. Trying to spin it now doesn’t erase the double standard—you hold providers to one set of rules while making exceptions when it suits you. That’s hypocrisy!

And let’s be clear: I’m not putting words in your mouth. Your original post did all the talking. If you don’t like how it sounds, maybe you should rethink what you’re actually saying.

I know how many partners he’s been with, they’ve been tested, it’s highly regulated, and I know his STD status.
 

The point of this thread was not to discuss my personal life. It was to gauge peoples opinion and preferences on if a lot of reviews was a turn off, or a turn on? Obviously for you a lot of reviews is a turn on, good for you!

PS my guy could be Czech or he could be Slovak. Don’t misappropriate someone’s identity. 

9 hours ago, ApexNomad said:

It’s interesting that you’ve now posted about preferring guys with just the right amount of reviews, right after that long, convoluted thread where you emphasized being this Czech porn star’s first and only client and explained how he’s not an escort and isn’t jaded by the industry. It’s worth noting that as a porn star, it’s perfectly acceptable for him to have slept with many people, but when it comes to escorts, having multiple clients suddenly raises red flags for you? There seems to be a lot of effort here to separate your experience while imposing arbitrary standards on others.

But back to the topic of reviews, aren’t reviews, especially on platforms like RM, just a baseline? They provide merely a foundation of trust and transparency, helping people get a sense of the provider’s reputation and experience. Plus, it’s worth noting that not everyone posts reviews on RM—it’s not a fully accurate representation. It doesn’t account for regulars, aspects of their personal life, or the full spectrum of their connections. A lot can be learned through your own interactions, whether by text or, ideally, over the phone, and every experience with a provider is unique.

So, only having 6-10 reviews means they’re “safe,” but 100+ reviews means they’re somehow too experienced? Why the cut-off? Or are we trying to “slut shame” providers for doing their job? Let’s not go there. Rather than focusing on review counts, wouldn’t it make more sense to prioritize compatibility and the quality of connection? Real connection goes beyond the numbers, and reviews can simply ensure that your experience starts off on the right foot.

I never said safe or unsafe or shamed anyone. I said my preferences. You can have a different outlook. Opinions are opinions that’s why we’re all on this forum. But don’t put words in my mouth. 

It’s Newcastle University in northeast England. It’s even the logo of the university 

Is it really a good idea to be advocating to not use a condom with an escort? I don’t care what drugs are out there. 

I like guys with good reviews (between 6-10). But the guys who have like 100+ reviews are red flags for me usually. I’m not sure I want to be with someone who’s seen THAT many people over that much time. Especially if they are older. 
 

How do others feel about providers who have a lot of reviews?

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3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

If you're expecting to always be in control of the relationship then yes. You're treating him like a slave.

No I’m not trying to control the relationship. But it’s a weird balancing act of being a good friend and be in control of the relationship, offering a good friend financial help, and ensuring they’re ok financially. Obviously this is a very rare situation that I’ve never navigated and don’t know if others who have. 
 

Will I just end up upset, and down a lot of money? I personally think we will remain good friends forever even when I stop paying him. But deciding what, and how I should be expecting from him now that relationship has moved from me as the boss, to me as a good friend it’s weird uncharted territory. I feel like I need to give him an ultimatum at our next meet up and move the relationship back to more business-like. But there’s no where to go and ask about something like this.

I feel very torn, and unsure what to do in this situation. To his credit he’s been extremely honest. 

There’s a lot of poverty in the Czech Republic/Slovakia and a lot of amazing looking guys. Some of them want to enter into sugar daddy relationships. 
 

I started in a relationship with one for the past six months. I won’t say his name or the studio but I’m wondering what am I setting myself up for that could be a problem? Possibly nothing, but curious to get others thoughts.
 

He’s helped me a lot, and been a really good trusted person. I have compensated with trips and about $15,000 in cash so far, and the year isn’t over. While both have been happy with the relationship thus far, I’m beginning to wonder what sort of ultimatums I should be making? Should I keep it strictly business? He’s become a very good trusted friend. I can be honest with him more than anyone else in the world, and he’s been extremely discreet. I feel like he’s slipping further into a “good friend” and I’m losing control of the situation. Having a discussion with him about this and he starts to get angry. I don’t blame him because I pride myself on not treating him like a slave.

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