If the topic is appearance, accuracy of pictures, level of professionalism, punctuality, attentiveness and reliability, he hit a home run. 4 hr appt (eventually, when all was said and done) super fair contribution (at a glance) and quite possibly the most dashing young man I've seen in a while (possibly top 5 of my life to be honest). GORGEOUS!
HOWEVER...
The issue I had was he listed "Kissing" and BFE on his pro and I specially requested this before booking. This is the reason I utilize providers mostly because I lack intimacy in my personal life so I'm usually looking for someone to temporarily fill in the gap (for a couple hours, at least).
Behind closed doors he seemed to only be comfortable with the sub/dom dynamic, refused to kiss me as i so clearly made him aware of (no I don't have bad breath, I'm 32 and decent looking) and trust me I have no problem with face down ass up bullshit... if I found you on grindr. But the intimacy is THE REASON I make the contribution for when seeking a provider. A gentle way to phrase it is the intimacy It was lacking, and unfortunately I ended up feeling a little "played" by the incongruities in his profile promises and the interaction with me in person
We originally planned on an 8 hour overnight, Then it became a 6 hour overnight, then it became a 4 hour appt. The last thing he said to me was, "Don't worry, I'm taking kissing out of my profile, I just clicked on everything to attract people."
One grand later, I'm a little bitter. What do you y'all think of this am I being too emotional? It would not be the first time. I wish more of these guys would take the term BFE more seriously, act like my boyfriend damn it I'm too much of a bitch to get one on my own! =D