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I’m going to be honest and vulnerable here and just say discovered sensual massages later in life. I’m 50 and only started getting massages in the last 4 years. I’ve only gone to spas in NYC only. Have tried a bunch. It’s always hit or miss. And there are times I feel like I blew through money without really getting the experience I was looking for. My issue is I get very anxious with new masseurs and I’ve only really trusted one guy to deliver the goods. But there have been times when his energy was off. (Maybe just tired that day) so I’m looking for options. I’m handsome but I’m not that fit. I’m not unfit. I’m average. But my anxiety gets the best of me and I get self conscious of my body and my age and because it takes me a while to warm up, when it’s turn over time, I’m not in “attention” mode. Since I’m willing to pay above average prices for a great experience. Bet 150-300. I’m looking for recommendations for sexy masseurs in or out of spas who are not judgemental , empathetic and who is sensual and surprises you (I get aroused when it’s slow and seductive) and someone who pays attention to the nipples. Any recommendations? It doesn’t matter if they’re in a spa or out. Ugh. I feel like a loser posting this. Anyway, thanks all.

Hello gents, newbie here. been to TSMS a couple of times been happy so far but want to expand my options. I’m self conscious and takes me a while to loosen up and looking for spa/masseur — someone who is non-judgemental (and hot). Any recs? thanks!