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  1. Hey Guys,

    In my history hiring both masseurs and escorts, I tend to like to ensure I’ve read at least a few positive comments here before taking the plunge. Having seen the way RM makes it tough to leave a negative review, I’m wary of their reviews as I think only the positives get through. 
     

    Lately though, especially for Atlanta, I find it less and less likely that l’ll find a thread or recent experience mentioned in this forum, even when the provider has reviews published on RM or MF. I know some of you have commented on your trust in the reviews stemming from whether the reviewers on the other sites were first time reviewers or not. How have you checked that? I can’t seem to click on the reviewers names or search for their profiles to see if they’ve submitted others, and to try to determine if they are legit or not. Am I missing something?

    Other than here, are there other forums people check before making a hiring decision. I’m mostly worried about safety - I know when it comes to experiences YMMV. 
     

    thanks!

  2. On 9/4/2021 at 6:37 PM, andymn said:

    Was in Atlanta for a night and started off the evening at BJ Roosters. A little quieter than normal, but still a very fun and relaxed vibe. One dancer of interest quoted me $40/dance for the VIP room.  After rejecting that inflated cost, he quickly settled on $20/song. We had a couple of fun and very interactive multi-song sessions in a back room. 
     

    Then, on to Swinging Richards. Again, the main room was a little quieter than the last time I was there. But the VIP room was very busy, and that’s where I spent almost all my time. Had some great lap dances on the couches in the VIP room. Stayed until closing time at 3 am. 
     

    A solid B+ evening in Atlanta. I like the combo of the two places and look forward to my next visit to Atlanta. 

    Are you able to share more about the mix of dancers at each? College guys? Older? Mix of races and builds?

  3. Saw him a couple months ago, and saw his partner separately as well. Both super hot but rush to the HE pretty soon and finish before the time agreed upon/paid for which is a disappointment since they are both so incredibly hot and sensual. I’d definitely like to try their 4-hands but the rushed nature of both encounters has caused me to hesitate. 

  4. Tried to connect with him a couple months ago and had an odd experience. He was requesting I disclose what other providers I’d previously met with so he could prove I was legit. I felt weird about that but got permission from one of my previous regulars to give his name (to me discretion goes both ways), so I did. Marc seemed satisfied with that and we negotiated a time for the outcall. 
     

    The next day he reached out to reschedule me to a different time to be able to fit in another client and I just felt the whole situation felt off and declined to move ahead. It seemed while travelling he was packing clients in pretty tightly. 

  5. Tried to book since he’s now mentioned as an option for 4-hands with another provider who’s on my wish list. Quoted higher than his reviews state ($420 for 90 mins solo). Booked an hour and he cancelled 90 mins before the session.

     

    Maybe he really did have an emergency. Or maybe someone was willing to pay his rates for more time.

  6. Saw him a couple months ago for an outcall in ATL. The better pics on his profile are definitely out of date. He’s a nice guy, friendly, but just seems to have an overall awkward vibe. Weird conversation. Decent massage. Mechanical end.

     

    Just overall an off experience and didn’t click. Wouldn’t repeat but I’m sure he’d click with someone.

  7. Hi there,

     

    Anyone with experience with AaronLV (https://rentmen.eu/AaronLV)? The ad is brand new, pictures are hot, no RM reviews, but he claims to have lots of experience.

     

    I’ve done an extensive search on here with no success, but apologies in advance if I did miss any existing threads.

  8. So the main masseur, Ben is based in Toronto - absolutely amazing massage, extras available to those with membership. Was hooked before things got further locked down and felt riskier to meet anyone. He’s a smart guy, “retired” professional hence the great website etc. I vouch for the amazing massage on its own and the extras. Super hot and nice guy.

     

    Haven’t tried the LA services.

  9. I'm in Atlanta for the week and looking to get a massage. I've been looking over the ads and can't decide between these four. All are hot and would definitely turn me on. I've only met with Tim, so I'm looking for someone else this time. I might also consider a 4 hand massage from some of the guys below.

     

    Has anyone here met any of these guys? Who would you recommend, or are there any red flags that you see? And lastly, would it be unusual to ask the guy(s) to fulfill a fantasy by ending the massage by cumming all over my chest/stomach as I lay on my back on the table?

     

    MacMasseur https://rentmasseur.com/MacMasseur

     

    Zachary https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/31947/

     

    Mike https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28628/

     

    Ash https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30850/

     

     

    I couldn’t be more a fan of Mac if I tried. It baffles me that he’s never been discussed here. Amazing massage, very hot and kind young man. I’ve repeated more times than I care to admit.

  10. I guess it depends on your opinion of “hot”. I’ve been 3 times in the past 6 months and have only encountered one dancer I found attractive (I go for the athletic jock look) and even he wasn’t very fit and was a hustler in the VIP area. All the others appear to be on substances and/or hustling to pay the rent. Definitely not a high quality crowd compared to a quality escort or masseur, or what you hear of in Montreal.

     

    Just my opinion. YMMV.

  11. I’d also add from my experience with a well reviewed escort that I think highly of, sometimes it’s just that they are inconsistently unreliable.

     

    When I faced a similar situation many on this board offered helpful advice and I chalked it up to “for whatever reason, he just doesn’t want to engage anymore”. Low and behold a few weeks later, he reached out apologetically. Since then he’s been fairly apologetic about any delays in communication and has been pretty engaged, only to have him miss a recent appointment again.

     

    So while it may be that they’re not interested, or quite possibly may be that they just can’t be counted on and you need to keep that in mind and not take it personally.

     

    Then you decide for yourself if you can deal with the unknown going forward.

     

    For me, if it was my cleaning person, after two occasions I’d find a new one. For some reason this particular escort gets a few more chances from me but every time reminds me to keep a healthy emotional distance despite thinking he’s a great guy.

  12. Actually, do you know what the best way to move on is? Start thinking of who the next one is going to be. Would you mind sharing your location?

     

    I’m in Toronto. But it’s legit slim picking for my taste (athletic, young, clean cut). But definitely not looking ATM.

  13. I have really enjoyed reading so many thoughtful and supportive replies to this thread by @cautious.

     

     

    I agree! Despite the “distress” that caused me to start this thread, hearing others’ experiences has been empowering. Especially hearing that I’m not the only one to have this happen, that sometimes ghosting isn’t forever, and that there’s so much else that could be at play in his world has helped me find some peace.

     

    The most important shift over the past couple days has been coming to terms that whether something about our interactions contributed to the disappearance or not, I didn’t actually do anything to cause this to happen. Clearly there is something else going on with him and it could have zero to do with me, or I could have been a trigger - but I’m def didn’t do anything wrong to him.

     

    So over time I will get over it. I know I’ll miss him as a person, and our moments together a great deal. It won’t be easy to forget. And I’ll always have it nagging at me, wanting to ensure he’s doing okay and hoping that he doesn’t harbour any ill will. And I hope he knows he made a difference.

     

    I don’t think I will hire again after this outcome. But it’s still fresh. We’ll see what time brings.

     

    Thanks all.

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