Yes. I had two such muscleboy-bottoms, each for a few years. Both were inveterate gym-goers, had a submissive streak and were dedicated to pleasing a man.
Unlike you @Coolwave35, I used to schedule the meetings as I enjoyed the anticipation and slowly getting ready for our date.
Yes. After each session, in that post-coital glow, I’d talk over with the muscleboy what he’d liked most and what I’d really enjoyed, and we’d discuss what we might do next time. I’d be quite directive and detailed beforehand, as I found being dominant during the date isn’t necessarily enough for a good sub.
I’d tell my muscleboy how I wanted him to be dressed for our date - sometimes causal, sometimes smart formal dress as typically I like undressing my boy. Also I have an underwear fetish and so I’d specify briefs or jockstrap for the date. There would be a fun reward and a fun penalty: for compliance, a load in his mouth; for disobedience, being stripped naked and spanked.
Sometimes I’d get a few dildos/vibrators lined up. One sub really liked me using these on him first, whereas the other didn’t (he told me later) but liked how I just did what I wanted to his ass. Both muscleboys loved being tied up. I bought various restraints and I’d make that a “special treat” for them. (It takes time and energy to tie a guy up!)
And I’d mix up the atmosphere for our dates. I might be romantic: undress them lovingly at the start but leave walking around naked while I was fully clothed, making drinks and chatting to them. Or I might be harsh: have the muscleboy strip and drop to his knees to suck me off straightaway, before I’d even greeted him. Another time, I’d use dirty talk sparingly: ask the sub why I should feed him my load or why they deserved to be fucked hard; tell them where I was going to deposit my load (on their tongue, on their abs or all over their face). Sometimes I took photos and gave them copies - both subs liked that.
