Nothing better than choosing a masseur from a list of hot men on a website, read reviews (I know, some could be fake..), contact him with yr requests, arranging an appointment, being 90% of the time happy with the resemblance to his pics when he opens the door, getting undressed, laying face down on the table, hearing him taking his (usually) shorts off and begin to feel his hands on yr neck, back, glutes, legs....
The massage per se can be almost non existent, a bit light and amateurish, good and just a few times amazing.
The level of what happens in the sensual/erotic department depends on the masseur and of course also on the level of chemistry.
I have had a few masseurs who mechanically masturbate you with the same excitement of opening a can of tuna, others (mostly) who get hard, like what they see and allow touching, others that are very happy with mutual oral or just inviting you to open yr mouth, and a few (not many, I don't want to brag too much!) who ended on top and inside of you kissing passionately and creating a mutual explosion of senses and more...