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This is a great discussion and love @Simon Suraci's comments here. What I think we need to remember is that escorting is like any other business. There is someone selling a product and there is a person buying the product. The sellers (escorts) are like Amazon and every other business. Their customers review them, they get stars, written reviews, and their reputation needs to be impeccable in order to stay in business. They need to touch (pun intended!) reach customer in the right ways to make them come back. Word of mouth is everything as well. But individual customers are never reviewed by Amazon or Target or the restaurant down the street. Other than the airlines, there is no master database of blacklisted customers somewhere. Yes, Amazon can ban a customer or a restaurant can refuse to service. But the other restaurants in town all still needs business, so they aren't going to turn away a paying customer just because that customer had a problem with another restaurant. Each business will form its own opinion on each customer that walks in the front door. Yes, if a person decides to fuck with every restaurant in town, they will eventually run out of places to eat and word will get around. But make no mistake, one of these is the service/product provider and one of these is the person paying. Amazon, restaurants, the barber shop, or escorting. It's no different. Mr. Number can help escorts decide not to engage a person but it's 1000x easier for the customer to get a new number than it is for an escort to change their entire business name, profile page, reviews, and location. It kind of sucks to read but it's just the reality.

It means you have something he wants. Does he have something you want? Talk and figure out the answers to the questions above.

A few weeks ago, I found BTR on the AS and we were able to make it NRES along with LOQ. It was PRLD.

How do you handle this? Do you always ask this question before you quote a rate? When quoting a rate, do you say: $300/hr condoms, $350/hr bareback? Typically the BB question, in my experience, comes up after rate and dates or time is settled and sometimes even in person and not beforehand. If someone tried to add $$$ to their quote/rate after the fact, I would be really turned off. If this is truly your policy, and that's your choice and completely fine, I would expect that your profile description mentions the fact you charge extra for bareback.

I'm like 95% top and like getting my dick sucked more than anything in the world, like legit my favorite thing ever. That said, you put the right dude in front of me and I'll suck his cock for an hour like my freaking life depended on it.. Depends on the energy and the swagger in general, it's not even looks dependent sometimes.

As someone who has travelled out of the country with a few guys and had it go really well, here's some questions you need to discuss before you go anywhere: 1. What time do you normally wake up and go to sleep? Are you a morning person or night-owl? 2. When do you generally like to go to the gym, mornings, mid-day, afternoon? 3. Do you eat three square meals a day or just one huge one and when is that? 4. What interests you about [travel destination]? Is there something you want to do there? 5. Should I take the lead on making all the plans or do you want to be a part of it? 6. Do you have a contact in case anything bad happens to you? (This is crazy important; I went to a really disconnected mostly third world country with one of my guys -- a place where if he was put in the hospital I couldn't even make a phone call without making it a huge issue) Those are just some to get you started. There's more, but it's a good base.

I want to dislike this and want to poke holes in it, but it is really true. I think everyone should be who they are and just forge a path through the world as best they can and be supported by others. Love, family, all of it. Respect each other and leave everyone you meet in a life a little better than you found them. But I still want that big, built, deep voiced, testosterone dripping, alpha dawg who doesn't give a fuck and just wants to spread his seed everywhere. That's hot and that's never going to be not hot. 🤣

I'll keep that in mind. Not really looking for short and fat though. Want big and muscular. Know you, someone who will start throwing punches and kick my ass if I get their pronouns wrong. That's kinda hot.

Yes, he is reaching out to get more business. That's normal and okay in some regards although some clients hate it. Your appearance should NOT matter. In fact send him a pic of you now and make a side comment "I have a lot more hair now than when we met before - hope that's cool" and he should be fine. If he isn't, then he is someone you don't want anyway. You're overthinking this. If you want to see him again, do it. edit: I meant to say appearance should NOT matter. Added NOT.

No. Instagram doesn't have geo-location searching since it's not really for that. Even if you search a city name in the search, it will only pull accounts with that word in the profile name. So not sure if there is another solution but out of luck on that one.

Yea, what city are you in? I'm curious too. I know the economics of escorting from the provider side really well and would be interested to hear where you are.

When you say "easy access" you mean not needing a key to get into the elevator so someone can come straight to the room? If that is the case, they are few and far between in NYC these days. The two dozen or so hotels I use all over the city couldn't be considered "easy access" based on your post.

Thanks guys for all the replies. This has been really helpful. Still haven't found what I am looking for but I did find a bunch of people on Instagram searching #FTM and that led me to see all their followers and connections which made me realize there is a circle out there of what I am looking for, the big question is engaging respectfully. I can figure that out though without being a total creep. lol. For example: Ajay Holbrook (@ajayholbrook) • Instagram photos and videos WWW.INSTAGRAM.COM 50K Followers, 870 Following, 336 Posts - Ajay Holbrook (@ajayholbrook) on Instagram: "🏳️‍⚧️ FTM | Los Angeles, California 🌴 🩸Bodybuilder 🌊 Dancer 📧:...

So I was "straight" earlier in my life. Married to a woman, etc. Fully 100% gay now. LOL I have this thing in my head that I want to fuck a dude with a pussy. When I say dude, I mean really masculine and built. They're out there, I saw one on Rent Men a while back who is no longer active. Like 220 lbs, square jaw, jacked, tattoos, and a real vagina. I really don't want a smaller or feminie guy or someone who is a twink/skinny, which it seems like 99.9% of the typical FTMs are. So I am looking for something really, really rare. I know. So I searched the entire Rent Men site worldwide and only found one other. My question is are there other sites where I could find someone fitting this description other than RM that I don't know about. If anyone has suggestions or even a recommendation of someone, I will take that too. Location isn't the issue as for this fantasy, I can easily travel. Hope this doesn't come off too "weird" then again, we all have our thing.

I'm kinda shocked that FYC actually recorded another song. LOL.

I had never done this before but one overnight with my regular guy I mentioned having a 3rd could be hot. He immediately said let me handle this and went on rent.men and was like "I can wade through the bullshit and find someone who is good" and no, he didn't know the other guy. He was just really experienced and could tell based on reviews, description, pictures, who would be a good fit and who wouldn't. We had the other guy over for two hours of the overnight and it was PERFECT. Let the professionals handle it. That's how I operate.

In the right context and situations that can be considered good business. Businesses give away free stuff all the time to retain established customers when they know they have a great product and want to keep someone coming back for more. This was the third time, so it may be a little early for that. In general, I would expect an escort might do this on the 10th meeting or something where the hiring was very established over the course of a year or more. But hey, he had his reasons for doing that and I don't think you should have been bothered at all. Someone who runs a business and provides a product/service gave you something for free. Accept humbly and keep engaging them because they showed you who they are -- and that's kind of cool. Just never EXPECT IT.

The issue is that you can only list PNP on the profile as a binary option yes/no and not clarify. Many of the escorts that I know list it, but don't use themselves. They are okay with clients who want to use something to be more comfortable or take the edge off. Yes, that means you can get into really bad situations where a client overdoses in front of you and that's the worst case scenario. But if you are really interested in an escort and they have PNP in their profile, there is no harm in asking them to clarify when you engage with them. Those three letters are a deal breaker for some, and that's understandable. We simply can't know what or how much the escort uses, unless we ask. Then they can lie. It's a chance you take. But I have found many escorts that are actually clean and have PNP for their clients. So take that for what it's worth.

This generally doesn't apply domestically, but the $100 USD is the most counterfeited note in the world. More of them exist outside the USA than inside. There are tons of places overseas that won't take older style $100 USD notes and only want bills made in the past decade or the most recent version. Thailand, Namibia, Panama, etc. These are all places I have been turned away from using an older style $100 note and I don't even mean the 80's and 90's versions. They don't even like the early 2000's bills either.

A girl I knew a while back who was a hair stylest had dreams of opening up her own salon. "The Best Head" I lost touch with her but really hope she did it.

That's the same thing. You can be an oral top (receive oral) and anal top (provide penetration). I get the confusion on some level because one receives a mouth but gives a dick, lol. Wow, I don't think I ever realized that until I just typed it out.

I know him well -- he's everything advertised and more. Solid, well equipped, and the sweetest guy in the world. His communication via text is a little rough but the experience is awesome. Remember english is his second language and you'll be fine. He does speak English but not fluent, so teach him.

One escort I know changes his profile name, changes the pics, and puts it in a random unknown town on another continent, all because he wants to take time off (six months, a year, etc..) but RM doesn't allow suspending profiles without deleting and he wants to keep his 100+ 5.0 reviews. So anyone looking wouldn't find him, but he's out there somewhere.

Fair. But he will definitely get his ass kicked on the regular and won't do well in prison and no guard is going to give a rats ass about him when he complains. He will wish he's in the hole alone -- and not the hole he likes. The one thing everyone in prison knows is what others are in for and there's no hiding that. Everyone will know and it won't be pretty.

I picked up everything for one of my favorite providers who I travelled out of the country with, but he surprised me with a gift from his own money. If you pick everything up, I wouldn't worry about extra spending money -- they're making enough.