Sorry I didn't see this sooner. My first step would be I asking/saying I don't need to be draped. If he insists you do, usually that's a sign nothing extra is going to happen. It's been my experience that some providers who are only on MF offer extras for money, offer extras to some not all, or may eventually transition to having the menu of options open. I enjoy a mostly therapeutic not strictly, that's why I stopped going to a provider who gave me blue balls (even though he's 3 years later advertising on RMas well)