DapperGent

I Second that. I think because the motivations (other than lust) are different, we don’t see the industry with bitterness. In other words, when I decide to hire someone is because there are components that are as if not more important besides their looks. I came out of the close in my 30s but only started hiring in my 40s because one my professional life has become too demanding to spend hours on end browsing and secondly, I’m attracted to certain type of men and big on roleplaying (not everyone is big on verbal in bed) so it requires for me to be very discriminating before agreeing. I have no problem sending someone home (or leaving their place) if they don’t look like in their pictures or they suck at fantasy play. I understand where your pain comes from but you also have to take responsibility on all that 98% of escorts that were not good and took you awhile to come to a point of realization. Thank you for sharing, great topic.

I’d like to know who’s been in hired for a gangbang, hiring vs inviting horny men to a sex party are two different things I bet. Are you expected to be paid per hour or session, for the client perspective, is there a way to protect one from theft (having many men over). Also curious…. When you do participate in a gangbang is it hot (are you enjoying it) for you or is just another paying job?

Yeah, I used my imagination heavily when I was married often fantasizing about coworkers, the hunks in my ex wife family, from all of them two were possible since I knew they were gay but I didn’t want to take the risk at the time. At this age I don’t imagine fantasies I can not fulfill and I love fulfilling them 😈

I think everyone should play out their sexual fantasies while our libido and bodies still can. I came out of the closet after my divorce in my 30s and I’ve been experimenting with abandon in a way making up for the lost time… Back to the topic! I particularly do not like the aspects of pain when it comes to a rape fantasy but I’d prefer a scenario where I visit a friend who happens to have a guest over, they get me drunk or high enough to take advantage of me. I would attempt to resist their touches but they’ll talk me into it since I’m at their mercy literally… that’s a hot fantasy I’m looking to play out with trustworthy service providers.

Wait, the title is a clickbait. I thought this post was about preference for blonde men or blonde service providers, which I do, not necessarily this bodybuilding influencer. Hot but agree with others, not quite the section for it, would fit better entertainment.

I know who you are talking about, Bert knows how to use those hands… Concurring with @KeepItReal I would approach the subject during the massage, what are your expectations and he ought to tell you or give you his number.

For me being a porn star is not deciding factor when paying “premium”, for me it’s a package of physical attributes and what are they selling (personality is as important but there’s no way to know that until after meeting them): Is it just their body or body part/s, a perceived attitude or apparent behavior, does he specializes in a kink you are into, his profile seems he is down to roleplaying or something that makes him stands out, perhaps he has college education and can offer exceptional conversation on top of sex, ect. Perhaps, if you see them as people and not just as fast food items you could have a small but high quality rotation of men servicing you 😎

I think you got to define, in the heart of hearts, if you have fallen in love with him and you secretly hope he falls for you during this trip. If your motivation is purely hedonistic, I would not only define rates and expectations but also be reasonable and give him a day off from massage and from you, remember, you’re a just a client.

No, I’ve hired 100 bucks street prostitutes and have spent 1,000 dollars plus tips in a 2 hour and change session with an escort and in both occasions the determining factor wasn’t the money… they had what I wanted and they gave me that and way more, satisfaction is what we pay for no?

This is a business of pleasure, no one here is hiring a contractor to do your bathroom tiles and your choice is mainly motivated by frugality. In the service industry, a provider can charge whatever they want because that’s their value. If they are or not willing to negotiate their value, or if is justified or not, it is take it or leave it choice and act like a victim among mature men and young service providers is not getting you any sympathies.

Yes, very good looking and professional. The parts of the massage that were sensual were brief but overall great experience. I don’t know if he offers erotic massages, hope he does, definitely need to bring more cash for it next time you know… for the extra requests 😉

Since you’re looking into a hairy masseur, that is very specific and unlikely to be found in massage parlors (at least the ones I’ve tried), I would peruse masseur finder and rentmasseur to find the type of men you’re looking for. The ad should read something in the likes of erotic massage, that’s fully naked mutual touch (oral may or not be included) so tip generously.

I have always loved a smooth body including the genitals, then there has been trends of hairy, non hairy and now hairy and “natural” is back in fashion again. Let me tell you something, there’s nothing natural about an unkept bush for an excuse to use for self-loathing or lack of personal hygiene… just like getting regular haircuts, teeth maintenance, nail trimming and other Civilized Men customs. I trim my bush tightly but I prefer touching and seeing another man fully shaved, waxed or naturally smooth particularly those who take care of their bodies, you can feel the skin… feel those muscles, enjoy that cock…

I don’t care for that specifically but I will admit watching a man in front of you shaving his cock, taint and ass to smooth perfection does make my cock hard. However, I don’t like to shave others for fear of cutting them so no handiwork for me LOL! What turns me on is to feel smooth skin against smooth skin rubbing against each other, there’s something about touching a smooth skin or feel being caressed while swallowing a cock or getting it up the ass.

If this works as a regular stripclub and you can book private dances, offering additional services wouldn’t be out of the question. Unless you’d like to know out of just curiosity, just get into the list, attend, request a private and ask him with tact or perhaps with a tip in hand 😉😈

Not necessarily my type but he is hot, how did found his RentMen profile? He is worth booking, I could spend hours just devouring that cock…