CallmeIsh314

One of my favorite things to do is have a provider model and try on a bunch of undies for me.  I almost always want to pick up a new pair or two for a session (I tend to only do overnights).  The provider keeps whatever as a tip in the end.  To me it is about seeing a bunch of new styles or pairs.  I'm just wondering...

A. would be a better idea to have the provider pick out the stuff? 

B. and if so pay a little extra above the cost because they are doing a task outside of a session?  

I bounce back and forth-as in I sometimes Cashapp (whatever) 100 dollars and have them pick up a pair or two and pocket the difference. Or sometimes I pick it up myself (after getting the size of course).  I don't think it's huge either way and I am sure it is a preference thing. But general thoughts? 

FWIW unless you count drinking a glass of wine and very occasionally poppers as PnP/HnH (I don't) I hire almost exclusively overnights for the extended intimacy and more date-like set ups.  When I *do* hire for an hour or two it is with whatever provider I am seeing regularly and long term. 

I think clients who hire because they are luckless in the dating scene for whatever reason prefer longer sessions because they need erotic interaction and not just sex. My two cents. 

I’m going to add one more thing because this just occurred this evening. If somebody sends me a text that just says “hi” or “hey”, I do not respond because that suggests to me that it is going to be a longwinded back and forth that may not even go anywhere, and it also suggests that he is indecisive, since he could’ve just said, “Hi, Im looking for a 60 minute massage this evening. Are you available between 8:00 pm and 10:00 pm?”...all in 1 text. Being direct and saving time is tremendously underrated.