CallmeIsh314

One of my favorite things to do is have a provider model and try on a bunch of undies for me.  I almost always want to pick up a new pair or two for a session (I tend to only do overnights).  The provider keeps whatever as a tip in the end.  To me it is about seeing a bunch of new styles or pairs.  I'm just wondering...

A. would be a better idea to have the provider pick out the stuff? 

B. and if so pay a little extra above the cost because they are doing a task outside of a session?  

I bounce back and forth-as in I sometimes Cashapp (whatever) 100 dollars and have them pick up a pair or two and pocket the difference. Or sometimes I pick it up myself (after getting the size of course).  I don't think it's huge either way and I am sure it is a preference thing. But general thoughts? 

I have never and will never send my picture to a provider.  I don't even have all that many pictures of myself to begin with-I have *none* on any social media. I'll gladly provided a description through.  I think a providers should have a note (Taylor Reign has text to this end) in their ad about wanting to see a picture-which means I can move on without bothering them- I *really* dislike when I am asked for one. 

I understand that it can be a safety issue and I am sure it is never asked out of anything but safety/curiosity but it's a huge insecurity to me.  I also don't like it when providers say *anything* about my looks.    

On 9/30/2021 at 1:45 PM, maninsoma said:

I wonder what percentage of overnight or longer hires are for PnP versus just being clients who are looking for more of a "boyfriend experience" who can afford a longer session.  I only have a sample of me and some knowledge of someone I used to hire regularly and I'd say his overnight and longer appointments were definitely the latter.

FWIW unless you count drinking a glass of wine and very occasionally poppers as PnP/HnH (I don't) I hire almost exclusively overnights for the extended intimacy and more date-like set ups.  When I *do* hire for an hour or two it is with whatever provider I am seeing regularly and long term. 

I think clients who hire because they are luckless in the dating scene for whatever reason prefer longer sessions because they need erotic interaction and not just sex. My two cents.